
“Embrace the Suck”
Father Peter Fitzgibbons
July 19-20, 2025
Gospel: Luke 10: 38-42
Last night, I was watching people come into the church, and it was quite amusing. They were walking very slowly, and some of them were younger people. I asked them why they were walking so slowly. They said it was really hot out there. Okay, but walking slowly doesn’t make it any cooler. It reminded me of my last time overseas. I was a part of the group that arrived there first, so we were the old old-timers. When our replacements arrived so that we could go home, the newcomers would be outside doing light work to get acclimated to the heat. If it were 110 degrees, that would have been a nice, easy day for us. We would go running on days like that because we had been acclimated to the heat. So, the old-timers would watch the newcomers working outside in the heat and start a countdown, 3 – 2 – 1, and plunk, down they would go. They would have IVs in both arms. Yep, it takes a little time to get used to that kind of heat. After a day up north, I could take my shirt off, and if I sat it on the floor, it would literally stand straight up from all the body fluid I had lost. That is how hot it is over there.
We have a wonderful opportunity despite the discomfort of the summer heat. Saint Paul wrote, “Now I rejoice in my sufferings for your sake, and in my flesh I complete what is lacking in Christ’s afflictions for the sake of His body, that is, the church” (Colossians 1:24). We can offer up all our discomfort for the salvation of souls and the salvation of our own souls. We have been given a great gift that we can use for ourselves and others. So why waste it? Embrace the suck and offer it up as a penance. We have months of this heat ahead of us. I knew that would cheer you up. But what an opportunity we have to grow in grace and help others by our suffering. So, take advantage of this uncomfortable heat and offer it up. You don’t have to enjoy it. Enjoyment is not a requirement for offering something up.
Now, I’m going to try to save you some money. I’m going to share with you the secret to happiness and beauty, so you can stop watching TV commercials. Do you know what the secret to happiness is? Happiness comes from always having our Lord present in our souls and not losing Him. We don’t lose Him . . . We kick Him out by our unrepentant venial sin and mortal sin. Read the poem, “Hounds of Heaven,” by Francis Thompson. We are the ones who drive Christ away. Our Lord said, “But seek first the Kingdom [of God] and His righteousness, and all these things will be given you besides” (Matthew 6:33). When Christ lives within us, we have the greatest peace that is possible in this life, and eventually, we will have even greater peace in Heaven. But no matter how holy you are or try to be, you will always have disappointments. For example, I have been a priest for 41 years, and I am still not a Monsignor. So don’t tell me about your disappointments; I know what real disappointment is! People will disappoint us. My parents and brothers all died to get away from me, but I don’t take it personally. When my mother was dying, God and I had a chat, which included official military words that I will not repeat here. Was I disappointed? Yes. Did I lose faith? No, because I knew Who I needed to talk to.
The secret of beauty is having Christ within us and becoming His living Tabernacle. I was watching a commercial that featured a macho man who was all dressed up and looking very sharp. The commercial was for a cream that would help men eliminate the lines and creases on their faces. Really? Dude, give me your man-card; I’m going to shred it. I earned all these lines on my face. Numerous beauty products are available to enhance our appearance. My favorites for men are the comb-over and the comb-forward. Yeah, everybody sees it, especially on a windy day. Former New York City mayor, Rudy Giuliani, would color his hair, and on a hot day, the color would melt and drip down his face. Nobody sees that; it looks good! Beauty is not about seeing a dermatologist for treatment just so someone can bounce quarters off your cheeks when you are older. It is having Christ within you. True beauty comes from living holy lives. We are called to be a living Tabernacle and to bring Christ to others. He uses the beauty that comes from holiness so that people see Christ in us. At the end of their lives, Saint Teresa of Calcutta and Saint John Paul II were not going to win any beauty contests. But they radiated a divine beauty, a divine glow, and a divine joy. This is what we are called to be by living holy lives. This is how you can become beautiful. So, save your money on hair products and other beauty products. Want to be beautiful or handsome? Be holy. It’s a lot cheaper, and you will be a lot happier.
How will you apply this message to your life? ________________________________________
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