
“Christmas is a Holy Day, Not a Holiday”
Father Peter Fitzgibbons
December 20 – 21, 2025
Gospel: Matthew 1:18-24
This is a very beautiful season, and we take a lot of joy in it. Our church is a beautiful setting for our Lord’s coming, just like our hearts are after we go to Confession. In a few days, we will celebrate the solemnity of Christmas when God was made visible to us in the form of human flesh. It is such a joy. But there is usually something that distracts from the beauty of Christmas and why Jesus came. It’s always something besides His coming for our sins, because we don’t want to talk about sin. People can take anything sublime and use it blasphemously. They think they are smarter than the average bear, and they try to transform Christmas into a ‘deeper meaning’ for society. Mary was betrothed to a man named Joseph. It meant something different in first-century Jewish culture than it does in our culture today. “She was an unwed mother.” Please. They will say anything to detract from the reason Jesus came and why we should be joyful. Some say that Mary and Joseph were poor, and that is why they had to stay where they did. Really? Scripture does not support that, nor does common sense. Joseph was a talented man. He was a carpenter. Look at how much carpenters make these days. They make some serious ching. Carpenters in Joseph’s time did too, but wood was not as readily available as it is today. So, they could not afford to make many mistakes. But Joseph was a craftsman.
A priest in Boston, Father Stephen Josoma, who I think was my classmate from seminary, decided that his church’s nativity scene would not have a baby in a manger. Instead, his church displayed the following sign: “ICE was here.” Jesus was deported? This priest was trying to do the trendy thing, but it is blasphemous, and it is not true. Jesus was born in Palestine. Who governed Palestine? Rome. Jesus was a Roman citizen, so He could not be deported. Just like they cannot deport any of us from Acquadale or Oakboro. We are North Carolinians. That church in Boston changed the nativity for blasphemous purposes. If given the opportunity, I would say to that priest, “Father, we were in the same classes, and you were far brighter than I was. I must have missed that particular class on the nativity.”
Caesar decreed that everyone return to their ancestral birthplace to enroll in the census. Mary and Joseph had to stay where they did because they were late getting to the party. Apparently, they did not get into the high-speed lane and arrived late. It was nothing personal. Nobody knew Saint Joseph, that Mary would be the mother of God, or that He was riding around inside her stomach. They knew none of that. If you have tickets to a Panthers game and you get there ten minutes before game time, will you be getting a parking space near the stadium’s front door? Common sense tells us that you won’t. “Oh, sure. We have one just for you. It’s in Gastonia.” That’s just common sense.
On Christmas Day, the remedy for sin will arrive, Heaven will be opened, and we will be given the means to dwell there with our dear Lord. God’s promise of salvation made after the fall of our first parents is now made present. Love becomes incarnate in the Person of Jesus Christ. The 2nd Person of the Trinity assumed our humanity and became visible. He would die on the Cross 33 short years later so that the Gates of Heaven were opened for us, giving us the means for salvation through the Sacraments. That is the great joy of Christmas. The centuries of waiting for God’s promise to be fulfilled, which seemed much delayed, prepared us to receive that promise. In the same way, before you can go to any graduate school, you have to take the basic courses. You have to be prepared. All of God’s promises come true; we just have to wait for them and be prepared.
Who is Jesus? Jesus is our Savior Who came to save us from our sins. He comes to take our worst to give us His best, which is Himself. This is our joy at Christmas. He offers peace on Earth. That peace comes with peace in our souls for each and every one of us. During this time in the Gospel, the world was at peace. Do you know why? The Romans ruled it. If you stepped out of line, you got whacked. The Romans had very little tolerance for stupid. That is why the world was in a state of objective peace and not subject to interior peace.
Christ comes to be our peace . . . peace in our soul. He comes to take away our sins and, by taking away our sins, to infuse His divine presence in us. This is the joy of Christmas. We don’t have to wait for it. Yes, we have to wait a few more days to commemorate His coming. But each day Christ is made present, sacrificed on the altar, and we are given all the great gifts of His love in the Sacraments. You cannot receive a greater gift than divine love and the gift of Christ Himself. That is the joy of Christmas. To say anything else debases the holiday. It is a holy day, not a holiday. God has come to us so that we can go to Him at the end of our days. You know what is beautiful on Christmas Day? Instead of looking up to Heaven to pray, you can look down at the manger.
Father’s Reflections . . .
I had an interesting day yesterday. I was hearing confessions, and I kept yawning. One of the penitents asked, “Father, are you okay?” I said, “Yeah, I’m just an old man. I sit down, and I fall asleep.” Sometimes, hearing confessions is like being stoned to death with popcorn. Then there was a lady who was waiting for someone in the church parking lot. She rang my doorbell and said that she had been bitten by a snake. Okay, I was looking forward to drinking my coffee, but I guess this comes first. I called the paramedics, and they told me to turn her on her side if she threw up. Gosh, I really look forward to that, although it’s not exactly how I planned to spend my Saturday morning. I really miss hospital work! So, I sat at the kitchen table and waited for the paramedics to arrive, while she waited outside for them. I took my hometown newspaper out to her and said, “Hey, if you get bored, read this.” I wanted to keep her amused so that she didn’t wander out into the road. After that, I went to Harris Teeter. I bought some things and got into the checkout line. The store was playing “Have a Holly Jolly Christmas” by Burl Ives. The song was being played in a loop, over and over again. The checkout clerk was a young man, and I asked him, “One of your favorites?” He said, “It’s torture.” It was like at Gitmo when music was played to get the enemy to talk. That young man should get combat pay.
How will you apply this message to your life? ________________________________________
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