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Sermon Notes – July 20, 2025 – “Embrace the Suck”

“Embrace the Suck”

Father Peter Fitzgibbons

July 19-20, 2025

Gospel: Luke 10: 38-42

Last night, I was watching people come into the church, and it was quite amusing.  They were walking very slowly, and some of them were younger people.  I asked them why they were walking so slowly.  They said it was really hot out there.  Okay, but walking slowly doesn’t make it any cooler.  It reminded me of my last time overseas.  I was a part of the group that arrived there first, so we were the old old-timers. When our replacements arrived so that we could go home, the newcomers would be outside doing light work to get acclimated to the heat.  If it were 110 degrees, that would have been a nice, easy day for us.  We would go running on days like that because we had been acclimated to the heat.  So, the old-timers would watch the newcomers working outside in the heat and start a countdown, 3 – 2 – 1, and plunk, down they would go.  They would have IVs in both arms.  Yep, it takes a little time to get used to that kind of heat.  After a day up north, I could take my shirt off, and if I sat it on the floor, it would literally stand straight up from all the body fluid I had lost.  That is how hot it is over there.

We have a wonderful opportunity despite the discomfort of the summer heat.  Saint Paul wrote, “Now I rejoice in my sufferings for your sake, and in my flesh I complete what is lacking in Christ’s afflictions for the sake of His body, that is, the church” (Colossians 1:24).   We can offer up all our discomfort for the salvation of souls and the salvation of our own souls.   We have been given a great gift that we can use for ourselves and others.  So why waste it?   Embrace the suck and offer it up as a penance.  We have months of this heat ahead of us.  I knew that would cheer you up.  But what an opportunity we have to grow in grace and help others by our suffering.  So, take advantage of this uncomfortable heat and offer it up.  You don’t have to enjoy it.   Enjoyment is not a requirement for offering something up.

Now, I’m going to try to save you some money.  I’m going to share with you the secret to happiness and beauty, so you can stop watching TV commercials.  Do you know what the secret to happiness is?  Happiness comes from always having our Lord present in our souls and not losing Him.  We don’t lose Him . . . We kick Him out by our unrepentant venial sin and mortal sin.  Read the poem, “Hounds of Heaven,” by Francis Thompson.  We are the ones who drive Christ away.  Our Lord said, “But seek first the Kingdom [of God] and His righteousness, and all these things will be given you besides” (Matthew 6:33).   When Christ lives within us, we have the greatest peace that is possible in this life, and eventually, we will have even greater peace in Heaven.  But no matter how holy you are or try to be, you will always have disappointments.  For example, I have been a priest for 41 years, and I am still not a Monsignor.  So don’t tell me about your disappointments; I know what real disappointment is!   People will disappoint us.  My parents and brothers all died to get away from me, but I don’t take it personally.  When my mother was dying, God and I had a chat, which included official military words that I will not repeat here.  Was I disappointed?  Yes.  Did I lose faith?  No, because I knew Who I needed to talk to. 

The secret of beauty is having Christ within us and becoming His living Tabernacle.  I was watching a commercial that featured a macho man who was all dressed up and looking very sharp.  The commercial was for a cream that would help men eliminate the lines and creases on their faces.  Really?   Dude, give me your man-card; I’m going to shred it.   I earned all these lines on my face.  Numerous beauty products are available to enhance our appearance.  My favorites for men are the comb-over and the comb-forward.  Yeah, everybody sees it, especially on a windy day.  Former New York City mayor, Rudy Giuliani, would color his hair, and on a hot day, the color would melt and drip down his face.  Nobody sees that; it looks good!   Beauty is not about seeing a dermatologist for treatment just so someone can bounce quarters off your cheeks when you are older.  It is having Christ within you.  True beauty comes from living holy lives.   We are called to be a living Tabernacle and to bring Christ to others.  He uses the beauty that comes from holiness so that people see Christ in us.  At the end of their lives, Saint Teresa of Calcutta and Saint John Paul II were not going to win any beauty contests.   But they radiated a divine beauty, a divine glow, and a divine joy.   This is what we are called to be by living holy lives.  This is how you can become beautiful.  So, save your money on hair products and other beauty products.   Want to be beautiful or handsome?  Be holy.   It’s a lot cheaper, and you will be a lot happier.

How will you apply this message to your life?  ________________________________________

You can read all of Father Fitzgibbons’ sermons by going to AnnunciationCatholicAlbemarle.com, clicking on “Blog,” then “Categories,” and then “Sermon Notes.”  On a cell phone: click on “Blog” and then “Menu.”  Scroll to the bottom and click on “Categories.”  Sermon Notes are also available on the Church’s Facebook page at OLA.Catholic.Church.  Click on “Groups” and then “Sermon Notes.  

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Sermon Notes – July 6, 2025 – “You Will Be Amazed!”

“You Will Be Amazed!”

Father Peter Fitzgibbons

July 5-6, 2025

Gospel: Luke 10: 1-12, 17-20

Would you like to be amazed?  If yes, do you want an easy way to do it?   Just do what Christ told you to do.  “Lord, everything worked just like You told us it would!”  Well, duh!  As they say in Italian, “Stunad” (stupid).   “Were you expecting something different?  I’m God, remember?”  Peter had been fishing all night and hadn’t caught anything.  So, when our Lord told him, “Put out into deep water and pay out your nets for a catch,” Peter responded with a bit of sarcasm: “Master, we worked hard all night long and caught nothing, but if You say so, I will pay out the nets” (Luke 5:4-5).  It was obvious that Jesus wasn’t a fisherman; he was a carpenter.  But what happened?  Because the fishermen did what our Lord told them to do, they caught so many fish that their nets tore.  The Epistles affirm that if we do what God tells us to do, we will get what He promised, and our Lord has never reneged on any of His promises.  But keep it simple – do what He tells you to do just for today, just for this hour.  He tells us exactly where the landmines are on the way to salvation, and He gives us the map.  “Don’t step there . . . it will hurt you.” 

Christ performed many miracles.  He fed 5,000 people with five loaves and two fish.  So, you would think that the Apostles would have learned, but no.  They were not the sharpest knives in the drawer, nor were they the brightest bears in Jellystone Park.  Remember that old cartoon?  You would think that after our Lord resurrected four people from the dead and performed all the other miracles, the Apostles would have learned to trust Him.  “Do what I tell you, and you will get what I’ve got.”  Our Lord did not say, “My words are just suggestive. You do what you think is best.”  He did not say “Give 10 percent to the Church,” which I appreciate, but He didn’t say that either.   That is nowhere in Scripture.   If you ask, “How does He speak to us in the 21st Century?”  The same way He did in the First Century, Stunad!   Read the black part of Scripture, not the white part.  It has not changed.  Now, believe it or not, no matter how good-looking, intelligent, and talented I am, our Lord does not need my advice.  Whenever the Lord asked the Apostles a question, they gave Him the wrong answer.  We must do what He asks us to do. 

I took three vows when I was ordained: poverty, chastity, and obedience.  Thank God eating fish wasn’t one of them.  Anyway, do you know which vow is the most difficult?  Obedience.  There are two parts to obedience.  One is objective obedience: “Yes, Sir. Very good, Sir.”  You salute and carry out the mission.  There is also subjective obedience.  You give an order, and you hear, “Yes, Sir. Very good, Sir.”  But you know, in the back of their mind, they are patting the back of their head, which is a sign of mockery, and thinking, “I’m doing this because if I don’t, you’ll put me in prison.”   If they don’t obey a command, the First Sergeant will conduct some hands-on therapy.  They don’t do that anymore, but the laying on of hands can help alleviate many problems.   Subjective obedience is the renunciation of the will, in the same way as in marriages.  There is only one law in the married state, clerical state, and single state, or whatever your vocation.  It is the renunciation of self to do the will of the beloved.  For example, if you ask your children to do something, they may ask, “Why?”   When you say, “Because I said so,” they may throw a tantrum because they are not adults.  We do the same with God.  “Why do I have to go to Mass?”  Do you want God’s peace?  “Yes.”  Do you want God’s joy?  “Yes.”  Do you want the promise of eternal life?   “Yes.”  Then do what He told you and you will be amazed at what happens.

Announcement:

We will be getting a new vestment case.  For 20+ years, I have stared at the old one, and I really, really don’t like it.  Recently, I was at another church for a wedding, and when I saw theirs, I thought, “Need one. Gotta have one. Get one.”  It was so beautiful.  A donor has given most of the money for the new vestment case, but there is still room left if you would like to make a memorial donation.  The Misfits will be doing the demolition of the old cabinet, so we will save some money there.  If you would like to help with the cabinet, contact Lori Storms in the office. Her phone number is (704) 982-2910 extension 1. There are pictures of the new vestment case on the church’s Facebook page.  The case will be handmade of white oak and will take approximately seven months to complete.  It will be so beautiful!

How will you apply this message to your life?  ________________________________________

You can read all of Father Fitzgibbons’ sermons by going to AnnunciationCatholicAlbemarle.com, clicking on “Blog,” then “Categories,” and then “Sermon Notes.”  On a cell phone: click on “Blog” and then “Menu.”  Scroll to the bottom and click on “Categories.”  Sermon Notes are also available on the Church’s Facebook page at OLA.Catholic.Church.  Click on “Groups” and then “Sermon Notes

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The Rosary in a Year – Day 183 – Love Poured Out 

Fr. Mark-Mary reflects on the Crucifixion through Rubens’ painting, The Descent from the Cross, emphasizing the raw humanity of Jesus as He is lovingly lowered by His followers. He meditates on the mystical union between Christ the bridegroom and the Church, inviting us to find rest in Christ’s pierced side, the source of love, mercy, and life. Finally, he focuses on Mary’s sorrowful but hope-filled presence, encouraging us to bring our own losses to her while clinging to the promise of resurrection and redemption. Today’s focus is the mystery of the Crucifixion and we will be praying one decade of the Rosary.

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Sermon Notes – June 29, 2025 – “Christ Came to Build His Church … Not to Write a Book”

“Christ Came to Build His Church … Not to Write a Book”

Father Peter Fitzgibbons

June 28-29, 2025

Gospel: Matthew 16:13-19

Pop quiz: How many of you love Scripture?  Let’s try that again.  I’ll give you a do-over.   How many of you love Scripture?  Alright, I’m seeing hands being raised.  If you do not love Scripture, we need to have a chat, and it will be a one-way conversation.  Scripture is the revealed Word of God.  So, if you love Scripture, and you have all indicated that you do, then you must love the Church.  Do you know why?  Because the Church wrote it.  The Church knows exactly what is in Scripture, so she can both interpret and teach it.  Now, Scripture only contains what is necessary for salvation.  It is not a handbook for engineering or medicine, and dinosaurs are never mentioned.  Basically, the Gospel is Ecclesiology, or what the Church is.  By the way, the Church is not a “what,” but a “Who.”  Jesus revealed that to Paul on the road to Damascus when He said, “Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting Me?” (Acts 9:4).  We are the Body of Christ, so when you persecute the Church, you are persecuting Him. 

When you study Scripture, you must study it in the original language because English is a terrible language in which to study it.  When I first began my work in Hospice, I went to Nancy, who was one of the nurses, and I enrolled in Nancy’s College of Medical Terminology.  I asked Nancy what I needed to know so that I could become a better hospital chaplain.  Nancy gave me some books and papers to read.  This was because during treatment meetings, the medical staff would use all these big medical terms, and I was thankful that I could ask Dr. Google what they meant.  One of the doctors said, “Father, a veteran has Cheyne-Stokes respirations. Go see him.”  That is the kind of breathing you do until you don’t.  So, it was essential that I learn the language used by the medical staff. 

Likewise, we need to learn the words of Scripture, but we must learn them in the original language.  When Jesus said, “You are Peter and upon this rock I will build My church” (Matthew 16:18), Jesus renamed Simon, son of John.  In the Old Testament, Abram’s name was changed to Abraham to reflect his mission.  So, the Apostles understood what changing Simon’s name to Peter meant, and that was when they began to feel a bit of resentment.  When Jesus said, “Upon this rock I will build My church,” He used the Greek word “Ecclesia,” meaning “you.”   In English, the word “you” can be singular or plural.  In French, there are two words that mean “you” – vous (plural) and tu (singular).  That doesn’t happen in the English language.  Christ said, “You are Peter and upon this rock I will build My church.”  He said, “You.”   He did not say “through the power of the Apostles,” as the Episcopalians claim, nor “as a profession of faith,” but rather “you” personally.

Christ came to establish and embody His Church, which has continued throughout time.  The Catholic Church wrote the New Testament scripture, and it codified the Old Testament.  The Jews only had the first five books of the Old Testament, but after Christ established His Church, we now have a few more.  The last books of the New Testament were not written until around 90 A.D. The Church was present throughout the Roman Empire. A couple of generations of martyrs had already died for the true Faith.  The book wasn’t codified until the 4th Century.  Before that, we never had a book.  Jesus came to establish His Church and not to write a book.  It was the Catholic Church that wrote the book that became essential for salvation. 

In the Old Testament, Jews were called Katoikos, meaning “settler.”  In the Gospel, which was written in Aramaic, there is a Greek word, ” ekklesia,” commonly translated as “church.”  There is a big difference between “settler” and “church.”  Now, you older people will remember this and thank God that you are old, because many of our contemporaries never had the opportunity.  Do you remember the group, Peter, Paul, and Mary?  They sang “Puff the Magic Dragon.”  Many people thought that “Puff” was a synonym for marijuana.  Peter Yarrow, who was a member of the group and wrote the song, said, “I’m Puff’s daddy. Puff was a dragon; he was not marijuana.”  Likewise, you cannot read into Scripture; you must read what is there.  It’s like us when we get a pimple, and we consult Dr. Google.  “Oh my God!  I’ve got leprosy!”  And we run to the doctor who says, “You’ve got a pimple. Go home and wash your face. Grow up. You’ll be fine.”   Don’t read more into Scripture than what is there.  Let the Church, which wrote it, help you interpret it. 

Christ appointed Peter to build His Church.  Why?  Was Peter the brightest?  No.  That would be Luke, who was a physician.  Why Peter?  He was dumb as a rock, but he was the most able conduit of God’s grace.  God chooses us to serve, as He did Peter, not because we are the biggest and brightest in the class, but for our ability to be a conduit of His grace. 

How will you apply this message to your life?  ______________________________________

You can read all of Father Fitzgibbons’ sermons by going to AnnunciationCatholicAlbemarle.com, clicking on “Blog,” then “Categories,” and then “Sermon Notes.”  On a cell phone: click on “Blog” and then “Menu.”  Scroll to the bottom and click on “Categories.”  Sermon Notes are also available on the Church’s Facebook page at OLA.Catholic.Church.  Click on “Groups” and then “Sermon Notes.  

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The Rosary in a Year – Day 182 – Shared Sacrifice

Inspired by Raphael’s painting depicting the Carrying of the Cross, Fr. Mark-Mary focuses on the profound spiritual offering made by both Jesus and Mary. He emphasizes how Jesus willingly embraced his suffering out of love and obedience to the Father, and how Mary also offered her son with grace and faith. Their shared sacrifice is presented as an act of profound love and salvation. Today’s focus is the mystery of the Carrying of the Cross and we will be praying one decade of the Rosary.

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The Rosary in a Year – Day 181 – Grace Amid Thorns

Witnessing Christ crowned with thorns reveals a striking contrast between worldly might and divine strength and humility. Through the lens of Anthony van Dyck’s dramatic painting and the words of scripture and Pope John Paul II, Fr. Mark-Mary’s meditation unveils the redemptive power found in suffering. We are invited to see our own suffering as a means to draw nearer to Christ and receive His transforming grace. Today’s focus is the mystery of the Crowning with Thorns and we will be praying one decade of the Rosary.

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