The Leading Indicator of Success – There Are Two Types of People – Matthew Kelly – 60 Second Wisdom
“The great predictor of success is not talent or opportunity, but attitude towards learning. Developing the habit of continuous learning leads to success both personal and professionally.
Benjamin Barber wrote: “I divide the world into learners and non-learners. There are people who learn, who are open to what happens around them, who listen, who hear the lessons. When they do something stupid, they don’t do it again. And when they do something that works a little bit, they do it even better the next time. The question to ask is not whether you are a success or a failure, but whether you are a learner or a non-learner.”
Become a life-long learner. It is essential in our quest to live more meaningful lives. Read books, take courses, listen to podcasts, and watch videos that help you become the-best-version-of-yourself.”
Do I have talent? No. I got the good looks, and my twin brother got all of the talent. He could do everything. We are sort of unequal in talent. Someone asked me, “Do you like mincemeat pie?” It’s from New England and one of my favorites. In the old days, it was made of meat; now it’s made with fruit. They said, “You can make it, Father. You take a jar of mincemeat and a pie crust.” I tried, and it did not turn out so well. Cooking is not one of my talents. Singing is not one of my talents. Language is not one of my talents. I can speak a number of languages all at the same time!
God has given people different talents, some more, some less. It seems unfair. I mean, how could all these good looks have no talent! Come on! However, it seems that God’s little talent fairy gives everybody different talents, and it doesn’t seem right. Maybe. But, not really. We all have one purpose, and that is to build up the Kingdom of God. There is one talent He gave to us equally…we all have equal shares in this talent. It’s language. Now, you may be thinking, “Father, we’ve been here for 15 years for the Spanish Mass…you do not have a talent for language.” Well, maybe not for the languages we can hear. This is a language that can reach all men. If I speak Spanish, I won’t reach much of the world. If I speak French, I won’t reach much of the world. If I speak Latin, I’ll reach even less of the world. I am not fluent in other languages, except one. And that’s the language of the mighty Will of God. With that language, you can reach everyone, because it reaches people without them hearing.
One day while I was making my rounds at Hospice in the Veterans Administration Hospital, paramedics brought in a new patient, and they put him in Room 3. The nurses were busy with other patients, so I went to that room and helped the paramedics get the patient in to bed. Afterward, I washed my hands, because I had touched him…and this was before Covid too. One of the paramedics, who had not greeted me during this time, walked over to me and said “Thank you, Father.” This is how you reach people with your faith. Remember what Saint Francis said, “Teach the gospel continually; use words if necessary.” This is the universal language we have been given.
Beginning at Baptism, we were given the virtue of faith which was infused in us. Faith, hope, and charity… three infused divine virtues…were given first at Baptism, Confirmation, Penance, Holy Communion, and the other Sacraments. We have that gift…we have that ability…to teach others about Christ. This is how we evangelize. Not my becoming whatever or learning every language under creation. That’s not going to happen. I’m too old for that. I’m old enough now to eat dessert first, because I can’t trust anything else. Teach people the language of love. I don’t know if you will appreciate this, but even during my work in Hospice, I can teach the language of love. Impressing medical people is really hard. I’m not there often and for only a few hours a week. However, I have been asked to sign every death notification before the official record is closed. That was a “thank you”, from the medical staff, because somehow they were impressed with my work. But, it wasn’t my work, it was God’s work…I was just the village idiot doing what God told me to do. This is how we can reach out and touch people.
The human nature our Good Lord took from the Blessed Mother is the one that He suffered and redeemed us with, cried over our sins with, healed us with, and consoled us with. Now, it is in heaven with the Blessed Mother. But, through the grace of the Holy Spirit, which He gives us in the Holy Sacraments, He takes our human natures and makes Himself present. So, when you console somebody, you are Christ consoling them. You are Christ helping them. You are Christ healing them. Help others without being asked. When your neighbor has problems, help them. Why? Because it’s the right thing to do. People see the love of Christ in that. The acts of love and the sufferings of love are the universal language that can lead to Salvation. For example, if someone is sick, take over a casserole or nachos, and leave it on the porch. Contactless delivery. Why? Because it’s the right thing to do. Did anyone see you do it? No. But, you may get extra credit. Still, it’s the right thing to do. You are showing God’s love. Will they ever know it was you? Maybe…maybe not, unless you left your name on the plate so they could return it. This is how we evangelize. This is how we teach. God is using your human nature. It’s true. Jesus said it. When you help others, Christ is using your human nature. He said it in the Book of Acts. When Paul was persecuting the Church, Christ came down in a vision and said, “Saul, Saul why are you persecuting Me?” He didn’t say, “Why are you persecuting My church.” You cannot separate Christ from the Church. When you are separated from your body, you are usually dead. I didn’t go to medical school, but I’m pretty sure that’s what happens. When you do that, you are doing God’s work. What you “did for one of these least brothers of mine, you did for me.”
You want to be great evangelizers? Wonderful. You have that gift in you. You don’t need to go to a special course, you don’t need to pay money for a program, or go to Charlotte…please stay out of Charlotte. You don’t need to pay any money. You don’t need to buy books. You don’t need to do a lot of things that “they” tell you to do. What you do need to do is grow in God’s love, and then you cannot help but to bring that love to other people.
How will you apply this message to your life? Use your talent to help people so that they can see the love of God.
Our parish is blessed with many talented people. Talents are a gift from God to accomplish our vocation. What is our vocation? Achieving salvation and building up the Body of Christ. No matter how many talents you think you have or how few you think you have, each one is vitally important; otherwise, God wouldn’t have given them to you. Your talents perform a vital function in the Body of Chris.
A lot of talents are time sensitive – you only have them for a little while before Mother Nature encroaches and they fade away. For example, you do not see many professional athletes in their 50’s…that just does not happen. You don’t see brain surgeons in their 90’s, now do you. Believe it or not, I had a very easy job as a chaplain in the U.S. Army. However, when I turned 60, the Army said, “Hey, you’re too old…get out. This isn’t a geriatric unit.” That was very disconcerting, because not being married, I had nobody to tell me what to do for the first time in 24 years. You mean I can grow my hair? It was very unsettling. So, what might you see in people who are in their 50’s and 90’s? You may see that they are wonderfully and deeply in love with God. That is our common vocation. He has endowed us all with the ability to be in love with Him and united with Him in this world and in the next.
All the other talents and abilities that He has given us come to their proper end. So, there is no need to be jealous of the talents of others. I used to always kid my evil departed twin brother who had two doctorate degrees, wrote textbooks, worked as an EMT, and was a scuba diver. He had a file cabinet filled with all these courses he had taken…not that I hold any resentment…No! He took all my spare body parts with him. No, I’m not resentful at all. You see, my brother’s vocation was different than mine. His vocation depended on what God wanted my brother to do compared to what he wanted me to do. It’s the same for everybody. Don’t compare your physical and intellectual abilities with others. All of our talents and abilities are to be used for the glory of God. The only thing I knew how to do was to show up for PT (physical training) formation for 24 years. I’m not the most talented man in the world, but He did give me the ability to love Him. Love is the one talent God is going to judge us on. He will ask: “How have you shown My love to the world? How have you responded to My love?” Bishop Sheen told the story of a street cleaner. This guy was the best street cleaner around. Somebody asked him, “Why do you clean the crevices? Nobody sees them…why do you bother?” The man answered, “Because God sees them.” Whether in the penthouse or outhouse, on Park Avenue or a park bench, we all have unique abilities. The talent we have in common is the ability to grow in God’s love and to be possessed by Him.
As with any talent or ability, it must be used or it atrophies. If Frankie doesn’t practice her music, it will fade away. Muscle mass will atrophy unless you keep exercising. We must do this no matter our status or vocation in life. Our talents require practice, concentration, and study. So, too, does love. You need to practice through prayer, mortification, spiritual readings, and the Sacraments. Very simple things to do, but very hard to put in to practice, because we don’t like to practice.
The biggest obstacle in growing spiritually are the excuses we make. “I don’t feel good about it.” “I don’t get anything out of the Mass.” “I don’t like the music.” “It’s too hot in here.” “It’s too cold in here.” Really? Everybody has an excuse; “I don’t like the Mass.” “I don’t like it in English” “I don’t like it in Spanish.” “I don’t like it in Latin.” Well, come to the 12:15 Mass. I’ve got two or three different languages going on there, so you needn’t worry. Sometimes, I would love to say, “I’m getting too old for this.” The Mass is not to you. The Mass is the offering of Christ on the Cross, always before the Father, pleading on our behalf until the end of time. So, the Mass is not to you; it is for you. It is not presented so that you can sit there in judgement; instead, it shows the constant prayer of Christ for you, and He asks you to become a part of it. When I offer the bread and wine of the Body and Blood of Christ, your human nature is represented. You are being offered with Christ on the altar to the Father just as the human nature of Mary is being offered on the cross. Spiritually, Mary and John the Apostle are at the foot of the Cross, and you are fulfilling their hopes by being there. The Mass is the Holy Sacrifice of our Lord and a representation of what lies in Heaven to the end of time. Mass is not an action to you; it’s the prayer of Christ for you. So, how can you say you don’t get anything out of it, or that you don’t like it; or that you don’t like the language in which it is spoken?
Some people say about their prayer life, “Oh, I don’t get anything from prayer.” All we are doing when we pray is trying to grow in God’s love. Love is always reaching out to the loved one and not to self. That’s why so few grow in the spiritual life. They think that they have to like something before they do it. Read Mother Theresa’s autobiography. She and the sisters cared for lepers. Did they like it? No, but was a gift to God. Loving God is a talent we all share. I will never be a good golfer. I will never be a brain surgeon…thank God, right? I will never be a great hockey player, although I have the teeth for it…I had my teeth knocked out while playing hockey. I’m not a Misfit; they took power tools away from me. I will never be a lot of things, but, I was given the talent to love God. And, that talent does not go away with time. It may lay dormant from misuse and abuse, but it never goes away. In order for that talent to grow, you do what you can through mortification, spiritual readings, and the Sacraments. You can love God as equally as any canonized Saint of Church. You are capable of that same depth of love. The means are all before you. How will you apply this message to your life? Will you use prayer, mortification, spiritual readings, and the Sacraments to grow in your love for God?
