
“Did You See Me in Them?”
Father Peter Fitzgibbons
September 27 – 28, 2025
Gospel: Luke 16:19-31
Yesterday was the feast of Saint Vincent de Paul, the Patron Saint of Charity. He was known for his care of the poor, hungry, and needy. Saint Vincent said we should not be repulsed by their appearance, their uncouthness, their smell, or their confusion. The Savior said that “whatever you did for one of these least brothers of Mine, you did for Me” (Matthew 25:40). So do not let those things deter you.
During my priestly career, I remember spending 20 minutes talking to a patient whose cancer had become external and advanced to his brain. That was a real treat for the senses. There is nothing like the smell of external cancer. A nurse came into the room and sprayed Lysol. That did not help. But I sat there and I listened. I remember seeing a patient in the Emergency Room who had little pieces of flesh falling off him. He had bed bugs. I have had several patients just swear at me when I came into their rooms. I said to one of those patients, “Is that the best you’ve got? My aunt was a nurse, so if you want to impress me with your vulgarity, you need to step up your game.” Do not be put off by the poor, sick, and needy. They are children of God. He loves them. He created them, and He sustains them. So how can we not love them?
Some time ago, I watched a YouTube video about Cabarrus County deputy sheriffs. One of the deputies had pulled over a woman who was doing 61 in a 45. Usually that will get you a nice autograph and a request to make a contribution to the county and the state. The deputy came up to the woman’s car, and he was very polite. I was intrigued by this deputy’s counseling style. He was very well trained, and you could see that he had a lot of experience. This woman was belligerent. The deputy told the woman that she had a bit of an attitude which set her off on another tirade. He could see that this woman was going through a hard time, so he went back to his car and came back with a warning and not a ticket. The deputy said to the woman, “It looks as if you are going through a hard time so I’m giving you a warning today. Slow down.” This deputy just kept talking to her gently and eventually she opened up to him. She was three months clean from drugs. She had just left an abusive relationship up north, and she had to leave her child up there. She was having a bit of a meltdown. Finally, she asked the deputy if she could give him a hug. After she hugged him, the woman said that she was glad he had stopped her because she had been on her way to do something really stupid.
It is not up to us to judge whether someone is worthy of our love. We are not called to judge them. No, it is they who will judge us because God will ask us, “Do you love Me? Did you see Me in them?”
Father’s Reflections: I am glad to be home from vacation. Now, you may be wondering, “What does a priest do on vacation?” I don’t know what other priests do, but my vacations are always bizarre. * I had a dead man buy me dinner twice. * I survived a cat fight between my two cousins . . . that was a lot of fun. * I was walking around the mall saying my prayers and getting my steps in, and people kept saying to me, “Hello. How are you?” They were very pleasant. But this is Rhode Island, and nobody does that. What the heck is going on here! Then I looked down at my shirt which belonged to my brother, and on the crest of the shirt was “Scituate Police.” Those people at the mall were just sucking up to the cops. * I almost got poisoned. My friend made an Italian dinner for me which included an Italian pastry called zeppole. Afterwards, I discovered that I have a gall bladder, and that it does not love zeppole nearly as much as I do. She tried to poison a priest so that is very bad karma for her. * I went dumpster diving with my sister-in-law. That was fun. * When I got off the plane in Charlotte, a parishioner approached me and asked, “Are you Father Fitzgibbons?” Yes, I am. I don’t fly on the airline in my clerical garb because it scares people. One time there were six of us on the plane, and we were all in our clerical garb. It scared the living you-know-what out of everyone on the plane. Nobody moved. Nobody stood up. Everyone sat in their seats as quiet as church mice, and they didn’t ask for anything. As we were leaving the plane, flight attendants were giving us food, drinks, and everything else they hadn’t needed during the flight. * When I left the Charlotte airport, traffic was great, and I thought I would get home early. I was on Hwy 85 or the ride of death – I felt safer in Iraq. Then I turned onto Hwy 485. There was a concert at the pavilion and traffic was bumper to bumper. It was like driving on a slinky, inching my way home. Well, that was fun!
How will you apply this message to your life? ________________________________________
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