
They Always Said “Yes”
Father Peter Fitzgibbons
December 27 – 28, 2025
Gospel: Matthew 2:13-15, 19-23
Today is the Feast of the Holy Family. What made the Holy Family holy? They were holy because they had Christ in their family. How did they bring Christ into their family? They were obedient to God’s Word. Keeping the Lord’s Commandments are works of love. What was Mary’s response when the angel said to her, “Oh, by the way, you are to conceive a child without a husband. Are you good with that?” That would have been a death sentence in Israel at the time. But Mary loved God so much that her response was, “Okay, that sounds like a great idea, God. I’d love to.” Neither Mary nor Joseph was read into what was going to happen in the fullness of God’s Revelation. They did not know. God just asked them, “Will you do this?” and they always said, “Yes.” Joseph’s faith was strong, and he did a lot of work. “Hey Joseph. Mary is pregnant, but you are going to marry her anyway.” “Okay.” He was also told to take Mary to Bethlehem in the middle of the night using the shoe leather express. Now, nobody walks around Palestine in the middle of the night. First of all, it’s freezing, and it’s also very dangerous. When our military was there, the only time we ventured outside at night was with heavily armed soldiers with nasty attitudes.
When the Holy Family returned from Bethlehem, Joseph was told to take her all the way to Egypt, again by the shoe leather express. When they returned from Egypt, Joseph had to take Mary and the Baby to Jerusalem for Christ’s presentation in the temple, still again by the shoe leather express. When Christ was 12 years old, they had to make that same trip. Joseph did a lot of walking. Did he have an explanation for why? No. Did he understand any of it? No. The angel did not deem it necessary to enlighten him because Joseph lacked the necessary divine security clearance. He did it because God asked him to. Love dwelt in that family because they were obedient to God. The Blessed Mother and Joseph proved their love for God by their obedience. What did Christ say? “If you love Me, keep My Commandments.” By the way, there are more than ten Commandments. If He asks, always say “Yes.”
When priests are ordained, they take three vows: poverty, chastity, and obedience. The hardest vow for priests to keep is obedience. “Who the heck does that clown with the funny hat think he is?” Some of us are educated far beyond our abilities. Obedience has two parts: objective and subjective. Objective obedience is external. Subjective obedience is internal assent to a superior’s will and is the most challenging form of obedience. The marvelous thing about Mary and Joseph’s obedience is that it was both exterior and interior. While in the military, when I gave a soldier an order, most of the time they would say, “Yes, Sir. I’d be happy to,” and then they would carry out the order. However, sometimes soldiers really didn’t want to do what I had ordered, although that was irrelevant because I could literally put someone in prison for disobedience. Those soldiers followed my orders even though they didn’t want to, but in the back of their minds, they were probably thinking, “You are such an idiot!”
Subjective or internal disobedience resulted in Original Sin by our first parents: “I will not serve. I will not do what God says.” Obedience is always a struggle. You say that you love God, but sometimes your internal assent may be like, “Oh, I gotta go to Mass.” “It’s a Holy Day, so I have to go to Mass.” “I have a hard time receiving Jesus.” If you find it difficult to become a part of God’s sacrifice and receive Holy Communion, you really need to think through those objections. Does that even make sense to you? No. But because of our fallen nature, we want to rebel: “I don’t like being told what to do!” When God knocks on the door to our hearts, if Christ lives within us, we will open it and invite Him inside to sit and eat with us. If our hearts are hardened when God knocks, we will say, “No thanks. I’ve got this.” Even at the end of people’s lives, I have had some refuse the Sacrament of Last Rites. Usually, I wait until they are in a sweet state of reasonableness, which occurs about ten minutes after the drug cart has come by and they are bombed out of their ever-loving minds. It’s a spiritual tool that I have used many times.
Interior obedience is the most challenging struggle each of us faces because of Original Sin and the sins committed after Baptism. But it is our obedience to God’s commands that enables us to become like the Holy Family. Obeying His commands is how we increase in His love, to ensure the maximum happiness we can be afforded in this life, and to have life eternally. You think obedience is hard? Think about the Baby in the Manger, the 2nd Person in the Blessed Trinity, whose Father sent Him into the world. Jesus obeyed two of His creations, and you think you have trouble being obedient. Imitate the Christ Child, Who was obedient to His parents, Divinity being obedient to His creatures who were obedient to God. What a wonderful example of internal assent.
If you wish to be holy, you have to be obedient. Obedience to God is not always fun. Each day, I have to say the Divine Office, which takes about 20 minutes, and on really slow days, about 25 minutes. “Oh, it’s so hard to do!” Really? “Father, come down from the Cross; we need the wood.” It’s only hard for those who don’t want to love. There is no sacrifice in love. If there is, the sacrifice itself is love. To become like the Holy Family, we must follow their example by saying “Yes” to God. Jesus Christ said ‘Yes’ to God, and as a result, we have Him in the world as our Savior and Redeemer. He gave us two perfect examples to follow: Mary and Joseph.
Father’s Reflection: Someday, tomorrow will start without you.
How will you apply this message to your life? ________________________________________
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