10 Things to Remember: 1. Love is Always the Answer

Keep My Anger From Becoming Meanness

Daily Reflection – Say Over and Over Again. . .

The Love You Share

//Contemplative Monk//
Love Your Life


Daily Reflection – Ask Him to Lift You in Your Brokenness

Where in your life are you experiencing brokenness and how can you give it to God so he can transform it with his love?
//Dynamic Catholic//
Minute Meditation – God is the Source of All Good

While we are quite familiar with being disappointed by the worst we see in the world, we cannot deny the extraordinary heroism of which humanity is also capable. All around us, ordinary people are performing acts of sacrifice, giving up their own lives so that others may live. It is nearly impossible to look into the world and not see love overflowing at every turn. Science cannot explain it; logic doesn’t understand it. And yet, love emanates more powerfully than any substance we can measure. Truth transcends any instrument or equation. In moments of pessimism, when we find ourselves impatient with the world, do not grow hopeless, but trust in the unexplainable love lived by so many. Trust the goodness you see. Be still, and know that God is the source of all that is Good, Beautiful, and True, and that all love exists because God wills it.
—from the book Let Go: Seven Stumbling Blocks to Christian Discipleship
by Casey Cole, OFM, page 55
//Franciscan Media//
Sermon Notes – March 6, 2022 – Where is the Love?

“Where is the Love?”
Father Peter Fitzgibbons
March 5-6, 2022
Gospel: Luke 4:1-13
One of the great temptations that snares a lot of people because it sounds really good, besides bacon, is to do things for other people out of compassion. There is a lot of false compassion out there. “If you love me, you will do this for me.” “Oh, doctor, I hurt really bad. May I have some OxyContin?” That’s false compassion. Saint Luke recounts our Lord’s first three temptations. There are others, but these are the first three. With the first temptation of Christ, which happens to us in one form or another, the devil used false compassion. “People are bad because they lack stuff. They lack food. They lack education. They lack computers. They don’t have Facebook. They are poor, and they need stuff. If they had stuff, they wouldn’t be bad.” None of that is true. How many rich people have had abortions? In my own life, my mother’s family was very poor, and none of them went to prison. I take that back – my uncle went to prison, but he worked there. He was a Correctional Officer. The State of Massachusetts had him on work release for thirty years and finally told him he was too old and gave him his pension. He was from the Joe Cutrone School of Correctional Officers. He was a nice guy, and the murderers liked him. Give them some cigarettes, and they were happy. My cousin Philip was murdered, and they sent his murderer to the prison my uncle retired from. The inmate state employees there knew who he was. “We’ll take care of it as a favor.” They were going to take care of some business for him. My uncle told them, “No, no. Don’t do that.” That’s false compassion. Now, I go out to our local FU (Felon University), and there are doctors there, people with medical degrees, and lawyers. There are people there with advanced degrees and people with no degrees. There are rich people and poor people. People choose evil. If they don’t have a choice, they are put into a state hospital. They choose evil because they choose satan over Christ. It’s not a lack of anything. It’s a choice. Fat people go to prison. And believe it or not, inmates get fat in prison. So, it’s not a lack of anything. People are using false compassion when they say, “Let’s give all this charity to poor people, and they won’t be bad.” We have spent nine trillion dollars on various charities, but we don’t tell them about Jesus. Instead, we tell them how to work on a computer. I don’t have much computer knowledge, so I’m lucky that I know people.
The next temptation was all about power. Do you know who the most powerful person in the Church was? Saint Theresa of Calcutta. She wasn’t zealous for power, nor did she flaunt it. But look at the power of this little nun. She weighed about 120 pounds soaking wet with lead weights in her pocket. Which of our cardinals ever went up to the sitting president and vice president wagging their finger about abortion? Which one? Which one could have an audience with the Pope anytime she wanted? Which one spoke at the United Nations? Which one taught us how to love by living that love? Saint Theresa was the most powerful person in the Church. It’s not about getting into office, being ordained, having big titles after your name, or anything like that. I have titles after my name and some before my name. Whoopee! They mean nothing. They don’t even get me out of tickets anymore with these atheist cops down here.
There is power in love. It’s not political power, and it’s not power in the Church. “Oh, I have a position in the Church. I’m so and so!” Shut-up! Where is your love? When you are sitting with a sick person about to die, where is your love? “I’m in charge of programming.” You come with me, and we’ll see how that love in action does. I’ll have you throwing up in about an hour. That’s love in action. Come and take care of the sick. Sometimes, they’ll make it just inside the door before they catch a whiff of the smell. Ugh! What? Love is action. It’s not a position.
We don’t need to change any laws. We have more laws than we know what to do with. We can’t even incarcerate people because there’s no room for them. People want to change the Mass. They want to change the Sacraments. If you can do it better than Jesus, let me know. Now, husbands and wives . . . has your spouse ever told you they love you? I would hope so. Does that ever get old? Does it need to be changed? Does it need to be updated? Does it need to be made more relevant? Do you need a praise band going on there? Do you want some dancing down the hallway? We don’t need to change the Mass or the Sacraments. The Holy Sacrifice of the Mass is a divine act of love, and it doesn’t get old. What gets old is our pride when we think we can make it better. During the Sacrifice of the Mass, what is Jesus saying? He is saying, “I love you. This is how much I love you.” That never gets old. It only gets old if you don’t have room in your heart to say to Jesus, “I love you too.”
How will you apply this message to your life?
You can read all of Father Fitzgibbons’ sermons by going to http://AnnunciationCatholicAlbemarle.com/ and clicking on “Blog” then “Categories” and then “Sermon Notes.” Sermon notes can also be found on the church Facebook page by searching for “Facebook Our Lady of the Annunciation Albemarle”
Sermon Notes – February 27, 2022 – “Unchain Your Heart”

“Unchain Your Heart”
Father Peter Fitzgibbons
February 26-27, 2022
Gospel: Luke 6:39-45
This week, we have Ash Wednesday for which we have rules of fasting and abstinence. You can look them up online for a reminder. People call this the Penitential Season. “Ugh! I have to give up something. It’s 40 days of punishment!” It’s more than 40 days because we don’t count Sundays, and it ends on Holy Thursday. That is 40-50 days of no cake, no coffee, no pie, no soda, and no booze. Be happy about it. I prefer to think of it not as a Penitential Season in the sense that it’s about deprivation, but as an exercise of spiritual freedom. We free ourselves from bondage to things so that we may be able to love. We are trapped in pleasures not worthy of us. Chocolate cake will satisfy us for just so long. Believe it or not, I have not had a piece of bacon in two years. Medical quacks! Anyway. We are enslaved to things rather than free to love. When you break those chains, you achieve freedom. If you are not chained to Facebook, games, or whatever else you have, you are free to love and free to experience God’s love. Satan stirs up all these things in our heart. But Jesus said, “My ways are easy.” His ways are not difficult…He said that. Denying our fantasies is not difficult. If we say that they are, we are accusing Jesus of lying. We make it difficult by listening to Satan and instead, we wind up pole vaulting over mouse droppings where everything is so hard and so dramatic. Hey! Come down off the cross, we need the wood!
I’ll tell you this story. I was at a Christmas dinner years ago with the bishops and the abbot, a priest, was there. He was telling us about how he offered Mass to the people in Venice, and it was so cold, he could see his breath. I said, “Well, Father, I offered Mass in Iraq in 136 degree weather and during a sand storm. But to me, that was just another day at the office. Would I do it again? Yes, because I love my soldiers. Was it pleasant? Not really, but it was a work of love free from attachment. You will find that you have greater happiness. You will find a greater love to allow more love into your soul rather than a love of things. Rather than having things taking up space in our souls, God is there. He is the one for whom our souls were made. As Saint Augustine said, “Our heart is restless until it rests in You.” Our souls were made for God alone. Everything else does not satisfy. People are so unhappy because they keep trying to fill that void with people, places, and things that are not God.
During this season and our works of love, I urge you to come to Confession, and make it a frequent habit. I urge you to offer more prayer. And don’t say, “Oh, I’m going to say two Rosaries every day.” Just try a decade at a time, okay? Start out small with baby steps. You aren’t monks. You aren’t cloistered. You aren’t consecrated and can sit there for an hour. In seminary, we sat there for hours praying for vocations in the world. Just pray. Hey, that computer has an off switch. It won’t hurt you a bit. Honest. I promise it won’t hurt you a bit. Those people on Facebook will not miss you. TikTok videos will go on without you. Someday, we will get our celestial discharge, and they will still go on without us.
This season is a time for us to grow. It is not a time for brutality or self-flagellation. It’s a time for freedom to free ourselves from bondage to things; to improve our vision so that we can see what is really important to us; and to grow in the joy of our spiritual lives. This is not transitory joy that’s good for only a few seconds, then gone, and we are left to deal with the consequences. Rather, this is a joy that nobody can take from us. This is what we do. Seek His love. Don’t ask anyone, “What are you giving up for Lent?” First of all, it’s none of your business. And yes, it is my business as your priest.
People ask, “What are you going to do for this Lent?” Well, I’m going to try to be holier. I’m going to try to free myself of the bondage to things. We all have our fun and things that we like to do. They are innocent in and of themselves. They are not sinful. But, putting them down and turning to prayer might be a much better alternative.
How will you apply this message to your life?
You can read all of Father Fitzgibbons’ sermons by going to http://AnnunciationCatholicAlbemarle.com/ and clicking on “Blog” then “Categories” and then “Sermon Notes.” Sermon notes can also be found on the church Facebook page by searching for “Facebook Our Lady of the Annunciation Albemarle”