Sermon Notes – “He Knows Our Fears” – October 13, 2024

“He Knows Our Fears”

Father Peter Fitzgibbons

October 12 – 13, 2024


Gospel:   Mark 10:17-30

Going back to the Old Testament, there is the Commandment, “Thou shalt not kill.”  In the Arnold Schwarzenegger movie, “True Lies,” Arnold’s wife asks him, while he is on truth serum, if he ever killed anybody.  Arnold replies, “Yes, but they were all bad.”  Translated properly from Hebrew, the Commandment says, “You shall not take life unjustly.”  That is the Commandment.  The State has the inherent right to execute prisoners who have been justly convicted of capital crimes. The Church did not give the State that right, and the Church cannot take it away.  You have the right to protect yourself and others to the point of killing another person.  That is not murder, which is forbidden.  Remind me to speak to the Godmother, but that’s another matter.  You have to read Scripture in Hebrew.  “Oh!  We should not have soldiers or armed police!”  Yeah, let me know how that works out for you.  Not well because it violates the 5th Commandment.  You have the right and the obligation to preserve your own life. 

Thomas à Kempis was a priest who died in 1471 at the age of 91, an amazing life span especially during that period, medicine being what it was.  Even today, that would be considered a darn good run.  During his life, he was a priest at an Abbey where one of his jobs was to write.  He transcribed four copies of the bible with a quill pen and parchment paper.  That’s a lot of writing.  He also taught the young religious in the offices of the Abby.  He wrote a book, “The Imitation of Christ,” which is a spiritual classic.   If you are interested in spiritual life, it is a book you should have.   He wrote that the key to spiritual life is to do the will of another rather than your own.  And that’s hard.  I teach that to all the young men who want to be married.  I tell them that the answer to everything their wives ask is, “Yes, dear.”  That’s it, and your meals will continue to come on a regular basis.  Otherwise, you may win the battle, but you will not win the war.  They will attrite (gradually arrange) your death by a thousand cuts, and you have to shut your eyes some time.   So just say, “Yes, dear.” 

Doing the will of another is the hardest thing.   It is an act of love to trust in the will of another especially someone appointed over you.  When I entered the military service, do you know what the first thing I did was?  I was a brand new officer – a captain.  But I went to a sergeant, even though I was already in the Army when he was still in diapers, and I asked him, “Would you help me, please?”  Why?  Because he knew more about the Army than I did.  Knowledge does not always apply to rank or position.  I had to trust that sergeant not to lead me astray.   I had to trust Master Sergeant Rodriguez, who was a tunnel rat in Vietnam, to teach me how to do my job in combat so I didn’t get myself killed.  He had been there, and rank had no standing.  So, we trust, which is hard to do.  Remember, we are fallen creatures because of Original Sin, sins committed after Baptism, and those sins committed against us after Baptism.  Our first parents walked with God and talked with God but did not want to serve God.  They ate the apple, and here we are.

What is God’s will?  “I do not know what God’s will is for me.”  Well, Christ spelled it out very specifically because every time He asked the Apostles a question, they got the answer wrong.  He knew we would also screw it up, so He said, “Keep My Commandments,” and he spelled them out.  “If you love Me, keep my Commandments.”  That means the Commandments are works of love, so we trust and surrender our will to Him.  And that’s hard because sometimes we think we are the brightest bears in Jellystone Park.  But we are not.  We are afraid.  “If I do this, I won’t have any fun. I won’t have this, and I won’t have that.”  The rich young man had many possessions.  He was possessed by his possessions.  Nobody could have his stuff.  You see someone playing with your stuff, you call the police because it’s your stuff.  All the gifts God has given, our talents and abilities, are to be put into service for others.  Our Lord knows our fears – that we might lose something or that we might miss something.  Fear is a tactic that the devil uses very often.  It’s a poor, positive motivator but a great negative one.  Fear.  “I might miss something.”  “I’m too busy on Sunday mornings to come to Mass.”  Hmmm . . . 9:30 a.m. in Albemarle.  What is going on in Albemarle at that hour?  I’ve lived here a long time, and I would like to know because I’ve missed it!  “I can’t come to Mass because I have company.”  Bring them to Mass with you; it would be good for them.  But people fear they will miss something. 

Our Lord talked about this in today’s Gospel:  “Amen, I say to you, there is no one who has given up house or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or lands for my sake and for the sake of the gospel who will not receive a hundred times more now in this present age: houses and brothers and sisters and mothers and children and lands, with persecutions, and eternal life in the age to come (Mark 10:29-30).  He promises us great things to assuage that fear that prevents us from renouncing ourselves and from loving Him.  What our Lord promises us in this life are very nice things but the greatest thing of all He promises us is Himself. 

How will you apply this message to your life? _____________________________________ 

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Sermon Notes – October 6, 2024 – “Love is Long-Suffering”

“Love is Long-Suffering”

Father Peter Fitzgibbons

October 5 – 6, 2024

Gospel:   Mark 10:2-16

Who did God create first – Adam or Eve?  Adam?  No.  God created adom first.  What does “adom” mean?  It means “person” in Hebrew.  After God took the rib from adom and created male and female, then adom became Adam and Eve.  Once there was one person, and now there were two.  The two become one in the Sacrament of Marriage.  That’s why you have to read Scripture in the original Hebrew.  “Father, when did you study that?”  Actually, I studied it for two semesters under a Rabbi.  God created adom first and then He separated that person into male and female.  So that in the Sacrament of Marriage the two who were separate are joined together into one. 

Now you might think, “Father, you’re not married.”  Correct, and every woman on the planet is thankful for that.  There’s a saying that “those who can’t, teach.”  Really?  Does your cardiologist have heart disease?  No.  Does your oncologist have cancer?  No.  So don’t listen to them; they don’t have it.  “How would you know, Doc?  You don’t have the disease, so buzz off!”  The love of a priest for God and the vocation of the priesthood are very similar to marriage.  Why?  Although the situations are different, it is the same basic expression of love because that love comes from Almighty God.  God chooses how we will serve Him in this life.  In the married state, man and woman become co-creators with God in the order of nature.  He chose me to become a co-creator with Him in the order of grace.   To express the love and wonder of God and expressed in self-sacrificial love always mindful of the intent of the Other.  United with the source of all love and to be holy in order to give that holiness to others.  That love lasts forever.  I cannot stop being a priest until they zip me into a body bag and send the box back up to Rhode Island to be buried with my parents until the resurrection on the Last Day.   I am a priest forever because we are married to it. 

How do we accomplish growing together in marital love?   Through the Sacraments and prayer.  Bishop Sheen said this to all couples, Catholic and non-Catholic, who were preparing for marriage, “Pray the Rosary together every day.”  I say the same to the couples I am preparing for marriage.  Why?  It accomplishes a number of things.  If you pray the Rosary, you pray scripture, which solves a lot of problems. You learn how to speak to each other.  If you can pray out loud together, you can talk to each other about anything.  Setting aside that time for prayer just for the two of you and God, the source of all love, will keep a marriage together.   Many priests who stopped saying their prayers and stopped doing their meditations eventually left the priesthood.  Their egos cut them off from the source of life.  They choose self-love instead of being filled with His selfless love.  I have yet to meet a priest who left the Priesthood and was truly happy. 

Love is always focused on the other and not on self.  That is what love is.  Yes, it is long-suffering, and you have to put up with the sins of others.  So do I.  Not everybody makes me cookies.  Oh, the sufferings I’ve seen as a priest!   But no matter the vocation, the principles are the same.  Holiness and union with God enable us to have union with others in our vocations.

How will you apply this message to your life? _________________________________________ 

You can read all of Father Fitzgibbons’ sermons by going to AnnunciationCatholicAlbemarle.com, clicking on “Blog” then “Categories” and then “Sermon Notes.”  On a cell phone: click on “Blog” and then “Menu.”  Scroll to the bottom and click on “Categories.”  Sermon Notes are also available on the Church’s Facebook page at OLA.Catholic.Church.  Click on “Groups” and then “Sermon Notes.”