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Sermon Notes – July 23, 2023 – Love is an Action

Love is an Action

Father Peter Fitzgibbons

July 22 – 23, 2023

Gospel:  Matthew 13:24-43

One of the things I like reading in my hometown newspaper is the obituaries.  Up north, where I grew up, we call it the “Irish sports page.”  Hey, you gotta have fun!  I like reading about what people have done in their lives.  Some people have done amazing things.  At the end of the obituaries, the religious services for the deceased are announced.  I find some of them incomprehensible.  “A celebration of life will be held at a restaurant” or wherever.  Really?  You should have had that a week ago when the person was warmer and could have appreciated it.  He’s dead!   Unfortunately, the same is done for Catholics: “A celebration of life will be held to celebrate their life.”   What the newspapers are printing is heresy and blasphemous.   It denies what the Mass is.  The Holy Sacrifice of the Mass is not a celebration of someone’s life.  The Mass is not an “it.”  It’s a “Who.”  It is Christ offering Himself to the Father on our behalf for the forgiveness of our sins.  And we all need that.  Even my sainted mother, who suffered purgatory on Earth because she raised me, needed a savior.   We had a Mass of Christian Burial for her, and I performed it. 

Christ prays for us in the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass because, unfortunately, we must leave this world through death.  We all contemplate the end of life.  I seem to be hurrying toward it a little quicker than I expected.  In fact, I’ve been scoping out the best rooms in Hospice.  We were never meant to die, and that’s why we fear death.  Original sin and the sins we have committed since Baptism have that effect.   In the Gospel, Christ said that after death comes judgment.   People don’t like that word.  Know why they don’t like it?  Because they’ve done something wrong.  Do you get nervous when you’re driving up Highway 52 to Salisbury and see a State Trooper or the Sheriff?  People tend to hit their breaks.  But if you’re not speeding, you have nothing to worry about.  I just give the officers a blessing and move on.  I’m grateful they are there like angels watching over us in case somebody gets hurt. 

Sometimes obituaries will say that the deceased person has “gone to see Jesus.”  And that’s true.   When we leave this world, God, Himself, will look at us and ask, “Did you love Me?”  “Did you keep My Commandments?”  That is the standard because that is what He said.  For some, it is not a pleasant meeting.  They only stay for a cup of coffee and then go elsewhere.  Others get to stay in Heaven forever.   How long we stay depends on how we have lived.  According to the Gospel of Matthew, we will be judged according to how we loved and responded to His love. 

There is a course we take in seminary called Eschatology, a study of the last days.  Within that course is a sub-course about the Four Last Things:  Death, Judgement, Heaven, and Hell.  Traditionally, we preach about the Four Last Things during Lent.  When we leave this world, all of us will see Jesus.  How that meeting goes is entirely up to us.  The key thing to note is that God tells us exactly what to do.  “If you love Me, keep My Commandments.”  And He gives us the final exam questions further along in the Gospel of Matthew.   So, you already know what He will ask when you stand before Him.  “Did you love Me?”   “Yes, Lord.  You know I love You.”   He’s not going to accept the same excuse that you give police officers: “Oh, I didn’t see the speed limit sign, Officer.”  No!  He knows what we’ve done because love is an action.   

When I work with people who are passing, I ask them if they have made their peace with God.  God always wants to save us even at the point of our death.  Heaven was stolen once by the Good Thief on the Cross, and it can be stolen again.   Many in my hospital work have been able to steal Heaven at the last minute.  I have baptized several people while they were on their deathbeds, and one wasn’t even Catholic, but he wanted to be baptized.  They realize that they want peace.   I never mention the “D” word.  The Hospice staff don’t understand how I do that.  I just never bring it up.  I let them bring it up because they have to accept it.  You don’t take away someone’s crutch without giving them another one.   If they are Catholic, I ask them if they would like to be anointed with the Last Rites “just in case.”   I tell those who have made their peace with God, that at some point our good Lord will come for them.  And they will see Him coming with a smile on His face and arms wide open to embrace them.  So, open your arms and run to Him and know that there will never again be a risk of losing Him by sin.   

The good news and bad news for us is the same . . .  We are going to die.  If I go to hospice care, I’m having bacon at every meal.  What’s the worst that can happen, right?  We are all going to die.  But the good news for those who love God is that it is not bad news.  We will be with the One who has loved us all our lives beyond all our imaginations and Who will forgive anything if we say we are sorry.  That’s the good news.  We will have joy and peace forever. We will be far more able to help those we love to come to the same place we are.  Never be discouraged.  The fear of death is normal.  We were not supposed to die.  But the more we love God, the more that fear recedes from us.

Father’s Afterthoughts . . .
I want to thank everyone for my birthday party last week.  I must be losing my situational awareness with age because I had no idea.  Even though the party took four months of planning, it was a complete surprise.   Now, at the Spanish Mass today, I’m going to yell at them.  They know that I don’t understand a lot of Spanish, and so they talked about plans for the party right in front of me!  But I want to thank you for your kindness.  It was overwhelming, humbling, and a bit embarrassing. 

Mary Connor, a shut-in from our parish, passed away on Saturday.  She had all the Sacraments of the Church, and now she is at rest.  When I saw her on Thursday, I asked her how she was feeling, to which she replied, “I feel like bleep!”  I almost said, “Well, you look it.”  But I didn’t.  So, please pray for her soul. 

How will you apply this message to your life?  _______________________________________


You can read all of Father Fitzgibbons’ sermons by going to annunciationcatholicalbemarle.com and clicking on “Blog” then “Categories” then “Sermon Notes.”  On a cell phone: click on “Blog” and then “Menu.”  Scroll to the bottom and click on “Categories.”  Sermon Notes are also available on the Church’s Facebook page at ola.catholic.church.  Click on “Groups” and then “Sermon Notes.”

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Sermon Notes – September 17, 2023 – “We Cannot Give What We Do Not Have”

“We Cannot Give What We Do Not Have”

 Father Peter Fitzgibbons

 September 16 – 17, 2023

Gospel:  Matthew 18:21-35

This sermon has been felon-approved by the folks at FU (Felon University; i.e., the prison).  Remember, I have often told you that to study scripture you have to study it in the language and culture in which events occurred.  Otherwise, you won’t understand the extreme significance of our Lord’s words.  For example, consider the question, “Lord, if my brother sins against me, how often must I forgive him? As many as seven times?”   Now, if you have a family like mine, before their number was reduced considerably, sometimes they can really tick you off.  When my brother would make me mad, I’d wonder if it was the sixth or seventh time and if I should forgive him.  But our Lord said, ‘”I do not say to you seven times, but seventy times seven.”  Catholic school math tells me that is 490 times that I must forgive.  I could reach that number at a family reunion! 

In Aramaic, seven is a perfect number – it is zero, a perfect circle, and so it is infinite.  Our Lord said, “seventy times seven” or beyond infinity.  Why did He use that language?  Because while most modern languages today have comparative and superlative tenses, Aramaic and Hebrew did not at the time.  Remember when spies were sent to the Promised Land?  When they came back, they said that the people there were as numerous as grasshoppers and as tall as giants.   No, they weren’t.   There were just so many people that the spies couldn’t count them all, and the people were huge.  When Jesus fed the 5,000, not counting women and children, do you think the apostles were doing a head count?  1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7. . .   No.   It’s like when the diocese asks how many people were at church.  Well, the church was full, so there were 300.   The numbers are hyperbole. . . a number beyond counting.   

Our Lord used that hyperbolic phrase, “seventy times seventy” because that is how great God’s mercy is.  God’s nature is mercy and love.  So to deny everlasting mercy would be to deny Himself.   No matter how badly you think you’ve sinned, He absolutely forgives and forgets.  The only thing God cannot forgive is our not asking for forgiveness because He will not violate our free will.  We can keep things to ourselves although He already knows.  So, don’t think you are keeping anything from Him.  It is our choice to love Him or not.  Receiving His mercy is one of the greatest experiences of God’s love.  And that experience of God’s love enables us, as Saint John Paul II said, to go from the Sacrament of Penance which is the Sacrament of His mercy and love to the Sacrament of Holy Communion and Mass.  We can have a deeper appreciation, bond, and love for the Sacrament of Penance which leads to other Sacraments.  When someone says, “Father, I don’t need to go to confession,” I tell them that they also don’t need Holy Communion.  “What do you mean, Father?”   Did I stutter?  (My new favorite phrase.)  Then I ask a series of questions.  Who do you see in Holy Communion?  “Jesus Christ.”  Very good.  Who is Jesus Christ?  “The Savior.”   What does He save you from?  “Sin.”  And if you have no sins, you don’t need Mass and you don’t need to receive Holy Communion.   We all need a Savior. 

We cannot give what we do not have.  Likewise, we cannot forgive others if we have not experienced forgiveness.  Because of our diminished intellect and fallen nature, we tend to judge our spiritual nature by our feelings.  When we are called to forgive others, we might say, “I don’t feel like forgiving that person.”   However, Jesus used a declarative sentence when He said, “Forgive.”  Nowhere in the Gospels did He ever ask, “How do you feel about that?”   Our Lord doesn’t care how you feel.  Forgiveness is an act of the will.  Our feelings are diminished and don’t always lead us in the right direction.  The right thing to do goes beyond our feelings and inclinations.   When I eat fish – Eugh! –  I do not feel like eating fish!  I hate fish!!  Damn doctors!   But I have to eat it.  Did the doctor ask if I like fish?  No!   Did he tell me to eat it?  Yes.  Quack!   For many years, I thought bacon was a health food.  God really has a way of laughing at us.  But eating fish is the right thing to do, so I reluctantly choke it down. 

Our Lord gave us a way to deal with all those feelings and resentments we have for others.  He said, “Pray for them.”  Pray for those who hate and persecute you.  One, they may be wrong; and two, they may be right, and we really are jerks.   Who knows.  But we pray for them, and we pray for ourselves so that we can get our distorted feelings and emotions back in check.  People say, “Father, you must hear lots of juicy things during confessions.”  Not really.  After the first week of hearing confessions, it’s like being stoned to death with popcorn.  If you have a sin I’ve never heard, I’ll name it after you.  Some people come to confession very upset, and I ask them what they have done.  “Well, I did this.”  Sometimes the hardest thing about hearing confessions is not laughing.   Really?  You are definitely pole-vaulting over mouse droppings here.   But what I hear while being stoned to death with popcorn is their great love.  I hear what people say and what they don’t say.  They realize they have sinned and have cut themselves off from God’s love.  They love God and want to come back and open their souls up to receive God’s love.  That’s what I hear, and I really do listen.  You aren’t going to sneak one in on me.  “Father, I talk cruelly to my dog and my cat.  I did some speeding.  I killed two people and umm…”  Whoa!  That’s called an Oreo confession.  But besides that, I hear the love for God.  And that’s what priests are listening for.

Father’s Reflections . . .

On Friday, I was doing my ACLS or CPR recertification, and I was working on a very expensive and sophisticated mannequin that would tell me if I needed to go deeper, faster, slower, or move my hands.  And all of a sudden, the mannequin went “de-de-de Woo-Bunk” and completely shut down.     So, I did the only thing I could . . . I pulled the sheet up over the mannequin, turned out the light, and closed the door as I left.  I’m a hospital chaplain; I’ve done this before.

How will you apply this message to your life?  ________________________________________

You can read all of Father Fitzgibbons’ sermons by going to annunciationcatholicalbemarle.com and clicking on “Blog” then “Categories” then “Sermon Notes.”  On a cell phone: click on “Blog” and then “Menu.”  Scroll to the bottom and click on “Categories.”  Sermon Notes are also available on the Church’s Facebook page at ola.catholic.church.  Click on “Groups” and then “Sermon Notes.”

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Sermon Notes – September 10, 2023 – “Hey Homey, You’re in a Minefield!”

“Hey Homey, You’re in a Minefield!”

 Father Peter Fitzgibbons

 September 9 – 10, 2023

Gospel:  Matthew 18: 15-20

Because we are all baptized, we are called to carry our crosses each day on the road to Calvary.  All of us will pass from this life and see God.  Some of us will stay only for a cup of coffee while others will get to stay longer.  If we are faithful, we will have a graduation ceremony in Heaven.   There are a lot of other people also on their way to Calvary.  We are called to encourage one another on the way to salvation.  It is important that we are not too sensitive when someone says, “Father, you are a real pain in the patootie.”   I already know that, and I’ll try to be better.  Sometimes, we are blind to our own faults, and we may start wandering off the path Christ has set for us.  We are called to warn others, “Hey homey, get over here.  You are wandering off the path and into a minefield.  Don’t go there.  Bad move!”   Saint Paul said, “I make up with my body what is lacking in the sufferings of Christ.”   So, we help one another by our prayers, sufferings, and works to help them carry their crosses.  And conversely, they help us carry ours. 

Instead of the terms “admonition” and “correction,” I prefer the term “encouragement.”  You don’t know anything about the crosses people are carrying and whether their crosses are their own fault, the fault of their parents, or the fault of their siblings.   We have no idea of the life they have led.  So rather than admonishing or correcting someone, I prefer encouraging them because it goes a lot further.  Sometimes a correction or threat is just an attention-getter.  But once you have their attention, encourage them.  In religious life, we call that fraternal correction.  However, it is usually infernal correction.  Our Lord said, “Why do you notice the splinter in your brother’s eye, but do not perceive the wooden beam in your own eye?”   We tend to think of ourselves as superior because, well, we are us.   I like to use fraternal encouragement.  Most people know they’ve made mistakes, so you don’t need to remind them.   They need encouragement to try to do the right thing to get back on, and stay on, the path Christ has set for us.  It’s hard to take up our daily crosses.  So, we need to encourage one another.   That’s why God gives Himself to us in the Sacraments.

I remember once running a Physical Training (PT) test.  The Army has since then changed the rules, but before when someone was failing – and you don’t want anyone to fail – when nobody was looking, you would pick them up and run with them.  Their feet would barely touch the ground.  And if an official was around, we would set them down and say, “Now run.”   We were running this one PT test, and I had my assistant run back to encourage the stragglers because nobody wants to take the test again.  This one soldier said, “I can’t do it, Sir!  I can’t do it!  I’m going to be sick!”  Shut up!  You can do it.  She made it, and she made it within the timeline.  And true to her word, she was ill.  Oops!  Later, she came back to me she said, “Thank you for helping me.” 

We are called to encourage one another with our crosses on our way to salvation.  A couple of things about our crosses and encouraging others with theirs is that we all have them, and we are no more holy than anyone else.  Even if someone is at fault, and even if it approaches the level of Civil Law, you cannot make it public because doing so would be scandalous and sinful.   Bishops are very good at scandal.  They really are.  You have to give people a way back and a way to regain their good name.  It is very hard for some people in the Church to do that even though, according to Civil Law, you can have your record expunged.  We have to allow people a way back because we are men, not angels. 

A priest once told me he had been suspended.  Now, I’m not a Canon lawyer, but I’ve seen one on television.  I asked this priest if he had received a letter.  He had not.  I told him that once he received a letter, it would tell him what he had done and what he needed to do to come back.  This is a medicinal remedy and not a punishment.  We are not in the punishment business; we are in the helping people obtain salvation business.   Remember, the amount of mercy we show is the amount of mercy we will receive.

Father’s Reflections . . . Monday is the anniversary of 9/11, and it reminds me of a quote by George Orwell: “People sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf.”  And having worked with some of them, yes, we did.

I had an interesting phone call the other day.  Usually, the calls I get go like this: “Father, yada yada yada, blah blah blah.”   And my response is, “Oh not again!  Please, just leave me alone!”  But this call was really nice and interesting.  The person said, “Father, I’m not a member of your parish, but I have Covid, and it’s terrible.  Would you please pray for me?”  Thank you!  I love messages like that.   It was a really nice phone call which is better than the ones I usually get. And yes, I did pray for the caller.   

How will you apply this message to your life?  ________________________________________

You can read all of Father Fitzgibbons’ sermons by going to annunciationcatholicalbemarle.com and clicking on “Blog” then “Categories” then “Sermon Notes.”  On a cell phone: click on “Blog” and then “Menu.”  Scroll to the bottom and click on “Categories.”  Sermon Notes are also available on the Church’s Facebook page at ola.catholic.church.  Click on “Groups” and then “Sermon Notes.”

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Sermon Notes – September 3, 2023 – “A Spoonful of Sugar Helps the Medicine Go Down”

“A Spoonful of Sugar Helps the Medicine Go Down”

 Father Peter Fitzgibbons

 September 2 – 3, 2023

Gospel:  Matthew 16: 21-27

From that time on, Jesus began to show His disciples that He must go to Jerusalem and suffer greatly from the elders, the chief priests, and the scribes, and be killed and on the third day be raised.  22 Then Peter took Him aside and began to rebuke Him, “God forbid, Lord! No such thing shall ever happen to you.”  23 He turned and said to Peter, “Get behind me, Satan! You are an obstacle to Me. You are thinking not as God does, but as human beings do.”  24 Then Jesus said to his disciples, “Whoever wishes to come after Me must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow Me.  25 For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake will find it.  26 What profit would there be for one to gain the whole world and forfeit his life? Or what can one give in exchange for his life?  27 For the Son of Man will come with His angels in His Father’s glory, and then He will repay everyone according to his conduct.

Last Friday night I had dinner at Blue Bay, and I had a love/hate relationship with my dinner.   Guess what I had . . . fish.  Did I tell you I hate fish?  But my doctor said if I eat fish at least twice a week, I might live longer.  I guess that is so I can die of something else.  Thanks a lot, Doc!   Appreciate it!   I was thinking about a time when I liked fish.  I’d had a cardiac procedure and when I came back, one of the ladies in the parish brought me a salmon dinner.  I didn’t mind it.  Of course, I was still on medication at the time, and I felt much better!  Perhaps that’s the secret to liking fish.  But that’s just a little cross of mine. 

Whether you love Jesus or not, you will get a cross.  We both love and hate our crosses.  They are meant to help us, so embrace them.  When we carry our crosses, we are fulfilling the command of our Savior.  But we struggle with them, and that is good because it means you love God.  We also hate our crosses.  Nobody likes them.   Some crosses come and some go in accordance with the time of life.   Some we have from the beginning until the end.  And sometimes, we even get extra ones.  We all have our share, and they are heavy enough for us to carry.  We cannot refuse our crosses.  None of them.  Nor can we, like the Protestant churches, remove some of the Commandments because, you know . . .  they’re hard.   Jesus called those people satan.   They take away the redemptive nature of suffering that we are all called to endure like Christ to achieve Heaven. 

Our crosses, like all the Commandments, are not that difficult.  They are not pleasant . . . I’ll give you that.  That’s why God made French dressing.  When I get a slab of Moby Dick on my plate, out comes the French dressing.  Mary Poppins was right . . . a spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down.   I have tasted better stuff in the military.  That’s how much I hate fish.  By the way, monkey still tastes like monkey.  Yuck!  One of our crosses is to conform our lives to Christ.  It’s a gift.  How many of you think of their crosses as a gift?   Not many, just as I thought.   But our crosses are like a celestial choke chain so that we don’t wander too far off the reservation.   My evil twin brother, Paul, was very gifted and he had many crosses.  He had two doctorates and a file cabinet full of certifications he had earned.  Saint Teresa of Lisieux said, “Our crosses help keep us small, humble, and reliant on our Savior for there is power in His mercy.”    

Our crosses are redemptive.  As Saint Paul said, “I make up with my body what is lacking in the sufferings of Christ.”   Now a final thought . . . Our crosses are abrasive and a beauty treatment for our soul.  Because I do all sorts of reading (I’m an eclectic reader), I once read about how to remove water marks from furniture.  You take some cigar ash, mix it with water, and rub the mixture onto the water stain.  Because cigar ash is abrasive, it will remove the water stain and bring back the richness and luster of the furniture.   And that’s what our crosses do.  They are abrasive to our souls.  They remove the stain of venial sin.  They also remove the remains of the stain of mortal sin on our souls.  And what do our crosses reveal especially when we are standing before God at our Particular Judgment?  They reveal the true beauty of our soul.  What is the true beauty of our soul?  The image and likeness of God from which we were created.  He will look at us and seek the image of His Son.

How will you apply this message to your life?  ______________________________________


You can read all of Father Fitzgibbons’ sermons by going to annunciationcatholicalbemarle.com and clicking on “Blog” then “Categories” then “Sermon Notes.”  On a cell phone: click on “Blog” and then “Menu.”  Scroll to the bottom and click on “Categories.”  Sermon Notes are also available on the Church’s Facebook page at ola.catholic.church.  Click on “Groups” and then “Sermon Notes.”

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Sermon Notes – August 27, 2023 – “I Know a Guy”

“I Know a Guy”

 Father Peter Fitzgibbons

 August 26 – 27, 2023

Gospel:  Matthew 16:13-20

Whenever our Lord asked a question, people always got the answer wrong.   So, I didn’t feel too bad as a student.  I’m not the brightest bulb in the circuit.  He asked them, “Who do people say that I am?”  Their answers were all wrong because the voice of people is not the voice of God.   When He asked the apostles that question, what did they say?   The apostles didn’t want to tick Jesus off, so they just went along to get along.  But while all the other apostles were afraid to answer, Simon Peter said, “You are the Messiah, Son of the Living God.”   But that answer didn’t come from Peter alone.  Jesus said, “This was revealed to you by My heavenly Father.”   So, our good Lord renamed him.  “You are Peter, and upon this rock, I will build My church.”   

When you read this passage in English, it is okay.  But when you read it in the original language, it is very striking.  Peter’s name was Simon bar-Jonah or Simon son of Jonah.   Peter is a Greek word meaning “rock.”  Our Lord renamed him Peter just like in the Old Testament when He changed Abram’s name to Abraham.   Abraham became the father of holy people.  When our Lord renamed Peter, he also became the father of holy people in the new body of Christ, the Church.  “Upon you, I will build my Church.”   Now, two things are interesting about that statement.  If you read the original statement, it says “you” in the singular context and not “you” in the plural meaning all the apostles.   Only Peter was given that decision-making authority.   Upon you, personally, I will build My Church.  That’s why the apostles were ticked off.  “Hey, what are we, chopped liver?” “Peter is a bozo.  Come on!”  “Upon this rock, I will build My church, and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it.”   Peter was given the power to bind and loose.  You have to understand that power.  That power is only for disciplinary matters such as fasting and abstinence.  The Church can do that to help people grow in the spiritual life.  The Church could also allow priests to marry because that is a discipline and not dogma.  However, it cannot change divine law because that would give the creatures God created power over Him.   Jesus did not give man the power over God.

Jesus knew what He was doing.  He created male and female.  He said that a man shall leave his mother and father and cling to his wife.  I do believe Jesus understood the full meaning of His words.  “Oh!  We are in the 21st century, and we understand things much better now than Jesus did, so we are going to change things.”   Uh-Huh.  Know what that is?   It’s the heresy of modernism.  “We are in a new age, and we understand things better.”  Ummm . . . No, you don’t.   When I was ordained, I had to take an oath against modernism.  There is a document on file at the Diocese that confirms the oath I took.   Why?  Because we preach now what we preached from the beginning.  The form has changed over the years, but the truth of the Church has not.  Some people have tried to change it, and they’ve gone away one way or another.  God may have revoked their birth certificates; I don’t know but sometimes that does happen. 

Read the Church fathers.  The First Century is now.   And if you have trouble falling asleep, read the works of Saint Augustine.   The works by John Chrysostom are much easier to read.   But reading Saint Augustine will quickly bring on the Zzzz‘s.   He said he had a really wicked life before being converted, but he certainly couldn’t write about it.  My gosh!  What we preach now is what we preached from the beginning.  The Pope is guaranteed the truth as long as he preaches what was given from the beginning.  We should be proud of our history.  Unfortunately, the Church has had popes, bishops, priests, and dare I say, sisters, who were not as holy as they should have been.  “Father, say it ain’t so!”  They caused all sorts of problems in the Church throughout the ages including great scandals.  If you think we are having fun these days, read the Church history.   Now we have electronics that hype up everything.  “Oh my God!!”   Relax.  God is awake all night and is taking care of this.  You don’t trust His promise?  That the gates of hell will not prevail?  Our good Lord is in charge.  Yes, we wish we had more holy priests, bishops, and nuns.  But we are men and not angels.  We are failed human beings standing on the deposit of faith.  Should we be upset and concerned about the future of the Church?  Yes and no.  No, because God is in charge, and He’s going to take care of it.  And yes, but we pray for those who are supposed to exercise the teaching office of the Church. 

Be strong.  When you say the right thing, some people really won’t like it.   I have been cursed out before, but I took it really well . . . “Sniff- Sniff”   Really?   You know the people I hung around with?    On those occasions, I always want to say, “I know a guy.”  You wouldn’t do that up north.  You’d get really hurt, and the cops would just say, “Oh that was a terrible accident!”  In the old days, that happened.  But you pray for them.

The Church has not changed its doctrine no matter how foul the people are who have been entrusted with it.   The promises of Christ were true in the beginning, and they are true now.  Yes, it is a time of turmoil in the Church.  We get nervous, upset, and angry because we see that which has given us life, love, and hope seemingly betrayed by those in it.  The smoke of satan is in the Church.  But God is in charge.  He has not forgotten His Church – His Body.  When Paul was out there putting the whack on people, Jesus asked him, “Why are you persecuting Me?”   God knows exactly what is going on.  Is this time the worst in the Church?  No.  Would we like it to be better?  Oh, heck yeah.  But we trust in our Heavenly Father.  So have faith, have courage, and pray for those who we think are weak and failing in their vocations.   

Father’s Reflections . . .I know that the weather is interesting and that you are all warm.  I’m wearing three layers of clothing, so I know how you feel.  But use this to your advantage.  Would you rather be hot here now or a lot hotter somewhere else later? 

How will you apply this message to your life?  _____________________________

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Sermon Notes – August 20, 2023 – “We Have No Idea”

“We Have No Idea”

 Father Peter Fitzgibbons

 August 19 – 20, 2023

Gospel:  Matthew 15:21-28

I was visiting a soldier in the ER the other day.  I introduced myself as Chaplain Fitzgibbons and one of the chaplains at the VA Medical Center.  We were talking and getting along really well.  The soldier asked, “What religion are you?”  I told him I am a Roman Catholic and the Catholic priest for the Medical Center.  “Oh.”   Then we talked about the military branches we served in.  A little later, he asked me again, “What religion are you?”   “I’m a Roman Catholic.”  He was in pain and perhaps not the sharpest knife in the drawer.  His wife spoke up and said, “Well, we are Christian.”   Apparently, since I am not their brand of acceptable Christianity, I will not be going to Heaven when the Rapture takes place.  Okay.  Now, if they had not been civilians, I would have gone back to my old days in the military and put them both into a leaning rest because I was tired of looking at their faces.  I would have made it a one-way conversation.  Believe it or not, I do not care to be insulted.   Anyway, I said, “Well, don’t you think our good Lord considers the Crosses other people carry that we don’t see?  Don’t you think He takes that into account at Judgement?”   They said, “No.  You must be a member of this one particular sect.”   Okay. 

We just got a new admission to Hospice.  He is 56 years old, and he had a brain tumor that was removed.  Unfortunately, it has spread everywhere, and he is now in his end-days.  I don’t think I will see him again in this life.   This man was a police officer for 20 years, but when he couldn’t take it anymore, he retired.  Tom Adams will tell you that people can be devious and lie.  Think about all the sorrow and distress that man had to absorb within himself.  I was talking to his sister who is his caretaker.  After he left law enforcement, he moved to Florida to take care of his aging mother who is still alive.  So, this guy had a lot of things going on.  His sister told me that he had never been baptized.  Later, I motioned for his sister to come over to the doorway so that nobody could hear us.  I said, “When the doctor comes by and adjusts his pain meds, he will be bombed and won’t feel any pain as he leaves us.  I will be happy to baptize him then.”  God understands. 

We had this one lady who had Lewy Body Dementia.  Is she in Heaven?  I think she has a pretty good shot at it . . .  probably a lot better chance than me.  She was an Army nurse for 30 years in a field hospital in Vietnam.  Not fun!   She was also physically and sexually abused by her husband who mercifully died.  I met him once, and he seemed like a super nice guy.  However, I got the back story from the nurses and, apparently, he was not a nice guy.  But we were fortunate that we had a nurse who was trained and could help her deal with some of what she had endured.

So, we have no idea of who goes where.  We are called to respond to people of different faiths.  Our Lord calls us higher to the Catholic Church.   But we have no idea of the Crosses that other people carry.  Our Crosses are not comparative.  God wants us all to enter Heaven.  Did He go to this woman in the Gospel and say, “You are Samaritan and a dog.”  “Dog” was not a good term back then.  “Do you tithe?”  “Did you give to the DSA?”   DSA is the priest retirement collection.  He asked her none of those questions.  Instead, He gave the woman the gift of faith and love for Him.  God is looking for an excuse to give us the gifts of His love.   He gives them to us all the time and more often if we ask for them.  Sometimes His gifts are not the ones we want.  We cannot see the beauty in them, especially the gift of our Crosses.  They are beautiful things and are what will get us into Heaven.  Sometimes we really don’t appreciate the beauty of our Crosses, but God gives us these gifts because of His love.  Some of these gifts are meant to keep us humble so that we don’t wander off the reservation.  So, we do not judge.  God loves us all.  He asks us all to come up higher and that is a struggle for each and every one of us.  Some days are more difficult than others. 

But we do not judge who gets into Heaven and who doesn’t.  We don’t know.  Only God sees everything.   People in these minor sects say, “Well if you don’t know Jesus Christ, you are not going to Heaven.”  That staggers the imagination.  So let me understand this.  Is God all loving?  Scripture says He is.  He created the world out of love and sustains it out of love.  So, He created the people in Mongolia who have no idea who Jesus Christ is or what a DSA is.  Did God create them out of love just to send them to Hell?   God does not do that.  He wants us all to come to Him.  And remember, we have no idea what Crosses other people are carrying. 

How will you apply this message to your life?  ____________________________________

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Sermon Notes – August 13, 2023 – “Did I Stutter?”

“Did I Stutter?”

 Father Peter Fitzgibbons

August 12 – 13, 2023

Gospel:  Matthew 14:22-33


When you read about the apostles in Scripture, you see the great transformation that happened to them after Pentecost.   Before Pentecost, they always questioned our Lord.  Jesus wanted to see Lazarus who had died.   But the apostles said, “Hey Lord, he has been in the tomb for three days.  He’s way past the sell-by date.  I wouldn’t do that if I were You.”   The apostles were always questioning Him.  Questions are good, but not when you doubt the authority of the one making the request.  Jesus told them to feed the loaves and fishes to the crowd.  “Okay, but it’s not going to be enough.”   Jesus told them to go into town and preach the Gospel, heal the sick, and expel demons.”  They came back to Him surprised that it had actually worked.  They always doubted His Word.  In the Gospel, Jesus instructed Peter to walk toward Him on the water.  Peter did as he was told, but he became afraid and began to sink.  Our Lord asked Peter, “Why did you doubt?”   Basically, our Lord was saying, “Did I stutter?”   Our Lord said, “Unless you eat the flesh of the Son of man and drink His blood, you have no life in you.”   “Whoa!  What do you mean?”  It’s a declarative sentence, and He did not stutter.  Deal with it.

We think that we are smarter than the average bear and that we know more than our Lord.  We think that what He asks of us is impossible.   Even though the apostles saw all these miracles, the raising of at least three from the dead – one who was a very dead Lazarus – they still doubted the Resurrection.  Only until they were filled with the grace of the Holy Spirit did they believe that the Resurrection really happened.  Why did Peter allow fear to paralyze him?   The devil uses fear to take us away from our good Lord by saying, “Oh, His commands are impossible” which makes us think, “Oh, I cannot do that.”   Our Lord does not require us to do the impossible.  He only asks for good things which draw us closer to Him.  In the law, if something is impossible, the law does not apply, and you are not culpable.  If you can’t do it, you can’t do it.   Peter was sinking and cried out, “Lord save me.”   They weren’t miles from shore.  This wasn’t Lake Michigan.  Look at the map of Israel . . . there are no Great Lakes in Israel.  There is no Lake Erie.  So, they were not far from shore.  What happened in the Gospel?   Peter jumped into the water, and because he was only a few yards from land, he swam to shore.  Peter was a fisherman, and he could swim. 

Fear will paralyze us, and the devil uses it.  “I can’t do that.”  “The Commandments of God are too hard.”  “The Church must change them.”  “God obviously didn’t know what He was doing, else He wouldn’t ask us to follow His Commandments now in the 21st Century.”   And that’s not true.  His Commandments are not burdensome.  “If you love Me, keep My Commandments.”   That’s all the Commandments are . . . a test of His love and belief in His Word.   They may be inconvenient because we have our own agenda.  But God will never tell us to do something that is impossible or something that will hurt us.  Quite the opposite.  When we don’t fulfill His Commandments, we do self-harm because we cut ourselves off from His love slowly by venial sin or abruptly by mortal sin.   

So, keep your eyes on the Lord and what He said.  Don’t try to overthink it as some do.  “I’m going to fall.  I have sinned!”  You’ll be fine.  Do not be afraid, which is the most common phrase in scripture.  Do not be afraid.    Our Lord asks us to keep His Commandments if we love Him.  They are not burdensome.  “Oh!  I have to go to Mass on Sundays and on Holy Days!  Oh, it’s so hard!”   Oh, please.  If you had a free ticket to the Panthers game, you’d be right there in Charlotte with 70,000 other crazy people fighting traffic.  Yeah, that really sounds like fun.  I haven’t had so much fun since I was in the gas chamber.  Are you kidding me? 

Just think about what we trade for the love of our good Lord.  And what we trade for the very presence of God, Himself, in the Most Blessed Sacrament and the Second Person in the Holy Trinity Who talked to Moses as one man talks to another.  I use “man” in the Latin sense of the word meaning “mankind” – not male – the way Scripture was originally written.  What is better than that?  No admission fee . . .even better.  No trouble parking . . . even better than that.   We have to listen to our Lord, and that can be tough.  Do you know what class of people find it really hard to listen to the voice of our Lord?  Priests.   There was evidence of that 20 years ago when I arrived here and was looking around.  There was orange shag carpet in the church bathrooms.  Yeah.  I don’t think the good fathers ever listened to the women in the parish.  In their defense, they probably got a deal on it.  Fathers, you gotta listen.  You may be an expert on the Gospel, but you have to listen else you become deaf.   You always must listen for Him amidst the loud noises of our busy lives.  Do what our Lord commands.  And if we think His Commandments are burdensome, perhaps we need to love Him more and ourselves less.

How will you apply this message to your life?  _____________________________________

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Sermon Notes – August 6, 2023 – Busy is Not Your Friend

Busy is Not Your Friend

 Father Peter Fitzgibbons

August 5 – 6, 2023

Gospel:  Matthew 17:1-9

In today’s Gospel, the transfiguration happened about 10 days before our Lord’s Passion.   The Lord gave Peter, James, and John this great gift to show them His power so that they would be strengthened and fortified for the scandal of the Cross . . . the Passion.  He showed them who He was. . .  true God and true Man.  Our Lord lowered the veil of His humanity to show them His divinity.   His face became like the sun.  The three apostles had a foretaste of Heaven.  They saw Moses and Elijah there.  And it begs the question . . . How did they know it was Moses and Elijah?   This happened thousands of years before Facebook, and there were no pictures.  So, how the heck did they know?   Their minds were enlightened in the presence of God.  Moses, Elijah, and others were discussing with our Lord events that were still to come so we will have knowledge of the future.  Remember, Heaven is outside of time.  There is no time in Heaven.  Everything is in the present at once because God is.  They heard the voice of God the Father call out, a theophany or the manifestation of God.  “This is My beloved Son. Listen to Him.”   Peter offered to build three shelters – one for Moses, one for Elijah, and one for the Lord.  Peter said he wanted that moment to go on forever, but it didn’t.    Do you know what is interesting?  If you go back to the Old Testament, Moses disobeyed God when he struck the rock two times.  And the Lord said, “You are not entering the Promised Land.”   And where was Moses that day?  He was in the Promised Land which means there is forgiveness after death.  So, Moses made it to the Promised Land. 

The great spiritual consolations our God gives us are never lasting even though we want them to be.  They only last in Heaven.   Now this is a grave thing about the spiritual life or spiritual direction.  I was thinking about laypeople who say, “I’m a Spiritual Director.”  Uh-huh.  I’m Doctor House because I have watched every show.  That qualifies me, right?  If you say this prayer and do this, you will always be happy.  Really?  Check with a qualified medical professional about adjusting your meds.   We are never always happy.  Remember in the Book of Acts, the apostles were thrown into prison.  Prisons back then were very different.  One, they didn’t have cameras; and two, guess what happened to them . . . they got what we call “an attitude adjustment.”   They had the living you know what beat out of them.  But they rejoiced because they were found worthy to suffer for the Lord.   Our Lord said, “You will suffer for Me.”  He prophesied that we would have many trials and tribulations.  Look at Saint Paul’s letter to the Corinthians.   He was shipwrecked three times, stoned, and scourged.  “Hey God, if this is the way you treat your friends, it’s no wonder you have so few!”   He did not have an easy time of it, but he kept going. 

There is a great temptation when our time to suffer comes and everything seems to go bad.  We don’t feel our prayers, we aren’t being listened to, and it’s the same darn thing day after day.  So, the spiritual life is not always marvelous.  It is more like “Oh, if only I could see God.”   How many of the apostles were in the Garden of Gethsemane?   Only one was at the foot of the Cross.  Yet, in three years they saw all the miracles – at least three risen from the dead.   Think about all the miracles our Lord did.  “Oh, if I had just one big spiritual moment, I’d never doubt again.”  That’s not true.  We are no better than the apostles.  Our good Lord’s consolations to us, His appearances to us, and His gifts to us come not when we want them, but when our Lord decides we need them or as a free act of love to let us know He is always there.  But we tend to forget.  We get wrapped up in our daily lives and events, and the crushing work of staring at the coffee pot and microwave willing them to work faster.    Sometimes, we are so busy that we overlook the obvious.  “I didn’t see the police officer sitting there.”   It’s a big black car marked “State Police.”  How could you miss it?   We have tunnel vision while driving.  Father Adrian van Kaam reminds us in his book that many times we are too busy and tend to overlook our Lord’s consolations.  Our Lord reminds us of His presence and His care in the ordinary, mundane, and trivial events in our lives.  That’s why it’s so important at the end of the day to do an examination of conscience.  Take some time to look back over the day, not to see what you did right or wrong, but to see what our Lord is trying to say.   “Hi.  I love you!  It’s Me.  I’m here.”  We overlook it all. 

A couple of years ago, I was going out to visit someone in the hospital.  As I was walking upstairs, a nurse was coming down them.  She asked, “Are you a priest?”   Yeah.   “I was just going to call you.”  Well, I saved you a dime.  “There is someone upstairs in ICU who is dying.”   I told the family that it was just by chance that I was in town and that I was in the stairwell when I met the nurse.  God loves this person who was passing so much that I just happened to be there to give them Last Rites.  It’s tiny little things like that which show how much God loves us, but we are so busy that we overlook them. 

God gives those moments to us because He knows how fragile we are.  The apostles were always filled with fear, and we are no different.  God always gives us reminders of His love.  Not huge ones because that would scare the you know what out of us, but tiny, little reminders and consolations that we often overlook.  Consoling moments sometimes just show up when we least expect them. God speaks to us about the most ordinary things.  Thank Him for them.  He is aware of our strengths, our pain, and our fear.  He has not left us. 

How will you apply this message to your life?  ___________________________________


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Sermon Notes – July 30, 2023 – The Most Important Thing

The Most Important Thing

 Father Peter Fitzgibbons

July 29 – 30, 2023

Gospel:  Matthew 13:44-52

The last time I took a vacation up north, I was listening to the radio to catch up on the local news, and there was a news item about Taylor Swift.  I have no idea who she is, but apparently, she’s a performer and a good one.   One father bought tickets for his daughter to go see Taylor Swift for $2,500.  Really?  Haven’t people heard of a thing called “radio”?  How many CDs would that buy?  I’m just saying!   People are paying $2,500, and that’s just for tickets, but they also have to pay for parking and food.  People like to go to Carolina Panthers games, paying hundreds of dollars for the privilege, and that’s usually in the “nosebleed” section.   Hmmm.  How much does it cost to come to see the Second Person in the Blessed Trinity, Christ Incarnate, present here in the Tabernacle?  Let’s do a cost/benefit analysis on that one, shall we?   God, Himself, is here in the Tabernacle – for free – but not many people show up.  You get to look at God and God gets to look at you.   And it’s better for you.   Now, if you have the money and want to spend it, that’s up to you.  Enjoy yourself . . . that’s your right.  But don’t forget Who is most important.   If you lose Christ, that is a price beyond measure.   

I had a baptism, a wedding, and a wedding preparation session yesterday . . . all in a foreign language – Spanglish.  My Saturdays are never dull.  “Don’t worry, Father – your Spanish is very good.”  Spanish is my fourth language.  Actually, it’s my fifth language – I speak Army proficiently.  So, it’s my fifth language, although I’m not very good at my first.  People think I’m bright – but I’m not.  People want to come in and decorate the church and have a big rehearsal.  And that’s wonderful.   Priests say that they would prefer ten funerals to one wedding.  Funerals are easier to manage, but they are even beginning to get out of hand with the nonnegotiable demands of families.  The decorations in the church are important, although I wish the brides would wear more modest dresses.  I’m a hospital chaplain.  I’ve seen more body parts in 40 years than you will ever have.  Believe me . . . it’s not a thrill.  The most important thing that happens at a wedding is the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass . . . the presentation of our Lord’s constant sacrifice before the Father in Heaven.  His greatest act of love which will continue until the end of time for our salvation.  

The second most beautiful thing in a wedding is a man and a woman responding to the love of God.  By saying their vows, they are saying “yes” to Almighty God, and they receive a new vocation.  Their love for God makes them confident enough to say “yes” to Him and to procreate according to the Law of Nature.  Then they are taken up into the Holy Sacrifice and offered to the Father.  That’s the most beautiful thing.  Uniting themselves to God gives meaning to everything.   By focusing on all the other stuff, you are missing what is truly beautiful – the Real Presence of Christ in the Tabernacle.  That’s the most beautiful thing and the one on which we should focus. 

There is a policy book on what to do and not to do regarding decorations in the church.   I had a wedding in a Quonset hut in Korea in the Demilitarized Zone with a broken-down organ.  The American soldier’s parents were there, and they looked worried.   Yeah, if something happens, we’re all dead.  Don’t worry about it.   When I arrived in Korea, I received a briefing from the base commander who said, “Gentlemen, our orders are to die in place.”   I have gone to bed with happier thoughts.   No female soldiers were allowed where we were.  One came by accident, and when it was discovered that the soldier was female, she was gone in less than an hour.  But I remember vividly that wedding and the couple exchanging their vows in a Quonset hut built by Marines in 1953.   Yet that moment was cosmic because the couple found the Pearl of Christ in their vocation . . . the vocation of God.  Everything else in life would take its proper place and have more meaning.  Their personal wants and desires were all sacrificed for one goal . . . building up the love between them by first building up the love of God. 

This is what I tell couples during marriage preparation, and it’s what I told the couple yesterday.  Pray together every day, especially the Rosary.  Bishop Sheen said that.  They didn’t teach that in seminary.  I went to seminary during a very bad time, but I also learned from the ancient masters.  Pray the Rosary every night out loud and not the way the French do.  They really need to take some Valium and slow down.  It’s French – not “mumble.”  Let God hear it.  Words have meaning. 

We are given the pearl of Christ at Baptism, and it can be disguised as all sorts of things we encounter in the world.   He becomes a part of us in Holy Communion and in all the Sacraments to give us purpose, to give us strength, to give us hope, and to give us consolation.  This is what He offers us.  Once our focus is on Him, everything else falls into line appropriately.  When the people we encounter, whether it’s on the highway or in the supermarket, aren’t exactly nice, we tend to go haywire.  “They don’t like me!  They were so mean to me!”  First, look at what Christ puts up with.  And second, those people who were mean to you may be having problems.  “I think everyone should be nice to me because I’m a really nice guy.  Oh wait, I’m supposed to forgive the faults of others out of love for Him.”  Right.  By the way, this lesson will be repeated over and over again.  Mother Teresa and the Sisters of Charity spend a minimum of two hours a day in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament.  They get their strength through the Mass and prayer. 

The church is open every day.  God is waiting here for us.  I have plenty of room at Mass, and I am not overburdened with confessions.  I wish I were.  The pearl of Christ wants to come into your soul.

How will you apply this message to your life?  ________________________________________

You can read all of Father Fitzgibbons’ sermons by going to annunciationcatholicalbemarle.com and clicking on “Blog” then “Categories” then “Sermon Notes.”  On a cell phone: click on “Blog” and then “Menu.”  Scroll to the bottom and click on “Categories.”  Sermon Notes are also available on the Church’s Facebook page at ola.catholic.church.  Click on “Groups” and then “Sermon Notes.”

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Sermon Notes – July 16, 2023 – Hang Around a Barber Shop Long Enough and You’re Gonna Get a Haircut

Hang Around a Barber Shop Long Enough and You’re Gonna Get a Haircut

Father Peter Fitzgibbons

July 15 – 16, 2023

Gospel: Matthew 13:1-23

Our good Lord has given us the gift of life. With that gift of life, we are meant to serve Him in this world and reign with Him in the next. That is what the Catechism tells us. However, to reign with Him in the next life, we must take care of what we’ve been given – our souls. Our souls can become a beautiful garden of joy, peace, and tranquility. And if we take care of that garden, Christ will come dwell in it. But it is up to us to make sure that our garden is prepared for God and a place where the Word of God can get through.

Now, a garden takes a little work, because you first must prepare the soil by tilling and fertilizing it. After that, you need to get the soil ready for plants by removing all the rocks and weeds. It is not fun sometimes, especially in the North Carolina heat. As the Misfits will tell you, our gardens need constant weeding. One day everything can look great in the garden, and the next day it’s full of weeds. “Where the heck did those come from!” It is amazing how quickly Mother Nature will rebound, and those pesky weeds grow back. The bad stuff always seems to grow the quickest. It’s like good and bad habits. While good habits take longer to develop, bad habits develop quickly and, like weeds, are hard to get rid of.

We are called to tend to the garden of our souls so that when Christ comes, and we let Him in, He will find a place where He can grow into a thing of beauty which is Him. We must protect it by avoiding all provocations to sin, whether it is people, places, or things. Remember, if you hang around a barber shop long enough, you’re gonna get a haircut. Stay away from those provocations. You don’t have to go looking for satan; he will find you. We fertilize the garden of our soul with renunciation of self, prayer, penance, and mortification. Through prayer, sacrifice, and corporal and spiritual works of mercy, we prepare for God to come into and remain in our souls.

We must be ever vigilant so that when those sneaky, annoying weeds come back, we are ready for them. It is a never-ending task. No matter your vocation and no matter your age, it is a never-ending task. As Peter tells us, “The devil prowls about like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour” (1 Peter 5:8). And that’s true. So, do not tire of doing the daily activities which include prayer and mortification. A commander once told me, “Do the routine things routinely.” “But I’m not getting any benefit from it!” We are never good judges of ourselves. If you do the routine things, you will receive a benefit. You may not feel it, wherein lies the temptation. The last 60 years of spiritual “care” have people thinking more about their feelings. “I don’t feel. . .” and “I feel. . .” You all know my reaction to that – Shut up! I don’t care how you feel . . . I really don’t. I only care about what you do. Christ never asked that question in Scripture. Instead, He asked, “What do you think?” and the apostles got that wrong too. It has nothing to do with feelings and has everything to do with reality.

We must be vigilant and pay attention to our souls every day so that they remain in a state of grace. Do routine things routinely. Keep your garden nice, clean, and free of weeds. Water it with tears of penance for your sins and the sins of others. Fertilize it with acts of love. Do these things so that when our Lord comes and sows the seeds with His Word through the Sacraments, He will find a place where His love can take root and grow.

Father’s Afterthoughts . . .

As part of my continuing education, and so that I don’t forget the stuff learned in seminary, I do a lot of reading about theology, Christology, eschatology, and ecclesiology. With over 2,000 years of Church history, you can’t read or remember it all. So, I keep reading. And because of my work as a hospital chaplain, I read a lot of medical literature to keep up with what I might face in the hospital. I have been reading several articles lately, and I want to pass along what I have learned as a matter of perspective instead of waiting for the synod. The percentage of people who are afflicted with gender dysphoria or transgenderism is about 1.4% of the population. The percentage of people afflicted with same-sex attraction is about 2%. So, in total, we are talking about 4% of the population. Considered together, 40% of these people have additional psychological afflictions. That information comes straight from medical literature. None of those conditions are terminal in themselves. However, to put that into perspective, 10% of the population is afflicted with the disease of alcoholism which, if left untreated, is terminal. Untreated alcoholism is terminal not only for alcoholics, but also for the poor people who encounter them on the highway when they are driving drunk. The alcoholism death rate is astounding. I hope this provides some perspective on what is behind all the arguments.

How will you apply this message to your life? ________________________________________

You can read all of Father Fitzgibbons’ sermons by going to annunciationcatholicalbemarle.com and clicking on “Blog” then “Categories” then “Sermon Notes.” On a cell phone: click on “Blog” and then “Menu.” Scroll to the bottom and click on “Categories.” Sermon Notes are also available on the church Facebook page at ola.catholic.church. Click on “Groups” and then “Sermon Notes.”