Sermon Notes – He Ain’t Heavy

“He Ain’t Heavy, He’s My Brother”

Father Peter Fitzgibbons

December 29 – 30, 2018

Scripture: Luke 2: 41-52

41) Each year his parents went to Jerusalem for the feast of Passover, 42) and when he was twelve years old, they went up according to festival custom. 43) After they had completed its days, as they were returning, the boy Jesus remained behind in Jerusalem, but his parents did not know it. 44) Thinking that he was in the caravan, they journeyed for a day and looked for him among their relatives and acquaintances, 45) but not finding him, they returned to Jerusalem to look for him. 46) After three days they found him in the temple, sitting in the midst of the teachers, listening to them and asking them questions, 47) and all who heard him were astounded at his understanding and his answers. 48) When his parents saw him, they were astonished, and his mother said to him, “Son, why have you done this to us? Your father and I have been looking for you with great anxiety.” 49) And he said to them, “Why were you looking for me? Did you not know that I must be in my Father’s house?” 50) But they did not understand what he said to them. 51) He went down with them and came to Nazareth, and was obedient to them; and his mother kept all these things in her heart. 52) And Jesus advanced [in] wisdom and age and favor before God and man.

I grew up in a parish in Warwick, Rhode Island. At most, there were 600 families, including survivors of the Great Depression and World War II, however, this small parish produced five priests. Jesus said, “You will know them by their fruits… every good tree bears good fruit; but the bad tree bears bad fruit” (Matthew 7:15-17). The parish members in my boyhood church were happy and had a common mission…to be holy. Through the gift of faith, we can all be holy. However, to be holy, you must be willing to give up the high cost of low living. Is it hard? Yes. Is it as hard as the devil tells us it is? No. Do people fall short? Yes.

My family is no different than yours. Some of my cousins do not go to church, even though their families made sacrifices to send them to Catholic school. So, what can we do? As a family and as a church, we can pray and sacrifice for them. For example, in the military, if fellow soldiers are struggling with their 60 lb. backpacks during a 12 mile nature walk, we don’t ask if we can help….we take their burdens onto our own backs and go. If someone falls, we pick them up and carry them. In the same way, we can help each other, and all of God’s children, by shouldering their crosses, just as Christ did for us.

How will you apply this message to your life? Will you strive to be holy? Will you help others who are struggling by shouldering their crosses?


Sermon Notes – Is There Room at the Inn?

“Is There Room at the Inn?”

Father Peter Fitzgibbons

December 22 – 23, 2018

Scripture: Luke 1: 39-45

39 During those days Mary set out and traveled to the hill country in haste to a town of Judah, 40 where she entered the house of Zechariah and greeted Elizabeth. 41 When Elizabeth heard Mary’s greeting, the infant leaped in her womb, and Elizabeth, filled with the holy Spirit, 42 cried out in a loud voice and said, “Most blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb. 43 And how does this happen to me, that the mother of my Lord* should come to me? 44 For at the moment the sound of your greeting reached my ears, the infant in my womb leaped for joy. 45 Blessed are you who believed that what was spoken to you by the Lord would be fulfilled.

The New Testament is the beginning of our salvation. It was provided by Mary who is the Ark of the Covenant, and recorded by Luke. He took it all down. Mary was filled with love and was the epitome of obedience. Even though she didn’t understand when the angel Gabriel told her that she would bear a son, she said, “Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord; let it be done to me according to your word.” (Luke 1:26-38). She didn’t ask for proof, and she didn’t make excuses. She simply obeyed.

When the angel, Gabriel, told Zecharia that he and his wife, Elizabeth, would have a son, he did not believe. Instead, Zecharia said, “How shall I know this? For I am an old man, and my wife is advanced in years.”(Luke 1:18). As a result, he was struck mute until the birth of his son, John. When Mary was told that her relative, Elizabeth, had conceived a son, unlike Zecharia, she believed and immediately went to visit Elizabeth. Love is in immediate action. Once we say yes to Jesus, we can bring Him to others.

We study translated and retranslated scripture. Many of the expressions are those not used in our culture, so you have to read scripture in the context and period in which it was written. Once at Fort Bragg, I was sitting next to a friend of mine, a Rabbi, during mandatory chaplain training being taught by a minister. The topic was the Old Testament. I noticed that my friend was getting very red in the face…he was quite angry about the misinformation being provided. The Rabbi corrected the minister, and justified his explanation by saying that his peeps, the Jews, actually wrote the Old Testament.

Nobody wants to play the role of innkeeper in reenactments of the Christmas story. But, they didn’t know Joseph, Mary, or Jesus. There is a picture of Christ knocking on the door of a house; however, the picture is wrong, because the doorknob is on the wrong side. Only we can let Jesus in. In a way, we are our own innkeeper, and the doorknob is inside us. How do we let Him in? By going to confession and by taking Holy Communion.

How will you apply this message to your life? He is knocking….will you let Him in?


Sermon Notes – The Joy of Christmas

“The Joy of Christmas”

Father Peter Fitzgibbons

December 24 – 25, 2018

Scripture: Luke 2: 10-11

10 The angel said to them, “Do not be afraid; for behold, I proclaim to you good news of great joy that will be for all the people. 11 For today in the city of David a savior has been born for you who is Messiah and Lord.

When a man is discerning his vocation, he enters minor seminary and earns a degree in philosophy. After that, he begins major seminary where he will study theology which is the science of who God is. God’s nature is love…He is love Himself. God is incarnate at Christmas in the sacraments. We can sit with our Lord everyday in church…with His body, blood, and divinity.

When I perform weddings, sometimes I tell the couple that this should be the saddest day of their marriage. Why? Because love grows, deepens, and becomes richer over time. As children, Christmas was a wonderful time for us, because we were not jaded by sin. As adults, it is still a wonderful time, but that’s because it is built on a deeper love for Him and greater joy.

From the time I was a child, all of my Christmases have been wonderful, even those spent in a war zone, because it is a celebration of God. I was home, because I was where I was supposed to be, and I had the joy of all Christmases past. What a blessing! Each Christmas gets better and better, because love builds on love…it grows and deepens.

Christ is our peace and joy as long as we let Him live inside us; but, when we sin, we boot Him out of our lives, and our anxieties return. He so much wants to share His love so that we can have joy, not just at Christmas, but everyday. I know that we all have our crosses to bear, but if you are having trouble finding joy, you are blind. Look around you! Joy comes from helping people have Christ in their souls. By giving love, we get love in return.

On Christmas day, I always go to the VA hospital, because nobody wants to be there. After that, I visit nursing homes. Why? Because, it’s the right thing to do and, while there, I get to experience bits of God’s incarnate love. This is where joy and peace can be found. What a gift!

We live in a violent country. But, we can end violence by accepting His peace and letting Him live inside us. Mother Theresa never started a bar fight. She was a symbol of love and compassion. She had peace and joy in her heart. She had Christ inside her soul.

How will you apply this message to your life? Will you allow Him to live inside you and bring you peace and joy? Will you serve others by helping them find Christ?


Sermon Notes – Rejoice in the Lord

“Rejoice in the Lord Always!”

Father Peter Fitzgibbons

December 15 – 16, 2018

Scripture: Luke 3: 10-18

10) And the crowds asked him, “What then should we do? 11) He said to them in reply, “Whoever has two tunics should share with the person who has none. And whoever has food should do likewise. 12) Even tax collectors came to be baptized and they said to him, “Teacher, what should we do?” 13) He answered them, “Stop collecting more than what is prescribed.” 14) Soldiers also asked him, “And what is it that we should do?” He told them, “Do not practice extortion, do not falsely accuse anyone, and be satisfied with your wages.” 15) Now the people were filled with expectation, and all were asking in their hearts whether John might be the Messiah. 16) John answered them all, saying,l “I am baptizing you with water, but one mightier than I is coming. I am not worthy to loosen the thongs of his sandals. He will baptize you with the holy Spirit and fire. 17) His winnowing fan* is in his hand to clear his threshing floor and to gather the wheat into his barn, but the chaff he will burn with unquenchable fire.” 18) Exhorting them in many other ways, he preached good news to the people.

Many of us take daily medications for high blood pressure or cholesterol that enable us to have better health and, therefore, live better lives. We don’t often feel reactions like: “Yippee! I’m doing great!” or “I feel like doing the happy dance!” No. It’s more of a quiet, slow, and steady process to better health. The same is true with our spiritual health. Rarely, do we have feelings of joy and ecstasy…that kind of happiness won’t happen until we meet Him.

I recently visited an 87 year old man who was in Hospice. I spoke with the family and asked if I could say the “Prayers for the Dying.” They agreed, and although they are not Catholic, they loved it. This man was dying a terrible and painful death, but his dead uncle visited him to reassure him that it’s not that bad and that he wouldn’t feel any pain. Often, I tell those who are dying to go and meet their Savior and to meet Him joyfully.

We have three opportunities to meet God up close and personal:

• Sacraments

• Our deaths

• At the end of the world when He returns

Rejoice that we have the opportunity each day to be renewed by Him. How wonderful it is that we have this great gift! At Mass, we receive Him into our souls and become one with Him. We are united with Him, and He is united with us. And, we can do this every day; two times a day. Christ is there waiting for us in the Tabernacle. Saint Therese of Lisieux wept after she received her first Holy Communion…not because her mother was dead and missed the event, but because Jesus had kissed her heart, and she knew that God was there.

Let us rejoice for this is only a foretaste of heaven. The Lord tells us that our time of waiting is almost over, and that He will come for us, and no longer will we need to participate in Mass to see Him. Rejoice that Christ is coming… either at our deaths or at the end of the world. When He comes, we will be in His presence forever.

We will be judged, and everything will be made present before our eyes. Does God send people to hell? No. We send ourselves to hell.

How will you apply this message to your life? Will you seek every opportunity, through the sacraments, to get up close and personal with God?


Sermon Notes – Decorate Your Soul

“Decorate Your Soul”

Father Peter Fitzgibbons

December 8 – 9, 2018

Scripture: Luke 3: 1-6

1) In the fifteenth year of the reign of Tiberius Caesar,* when Pontius Pilate was governor of Judea,a and Herod was tetrarch of Galilee, and his brother Philip tetrarch of the region of Ituraea and Trachonitis, and Lysanias was tetrarch of Abilene, 2) during the high priesthood of Annas and Caiaphas,* the word of God came to John the son of Zechariah in the desert. 3) He went throughout [the] whole region of the Jordan, proclaiming a baptism of repentance for the forgiveness of sins, 4) as it is written in the book of the words of the prophet Isaiah:A voice of one crying out in the desert:‘Prepare the way of the Lord,make straight his paths. 5) Every valley shall be filled and every mountain and hill shall be made low. The winding roads shall be made straight, and the rough ways made smooth, 6) and all flesh shall see the salvation of God.’

In today’s gospel, John the Baptist went in to the desert to prepare for the coming of Christ, and when he returned, he helped people prepare for the way of the Lord. We can prepare by taking the time to examine our hearts….have they hardened? We can also prepare by examining our lives….is God at the center and a priority?

Advent is a time of joy, because we are preparing to celebrate the birth of Christ. As a symbol of our love for the Savior, we prepare by decorating our homes with Christmas trees, lights, and wreaths, and by playing Christmas carols. In the same way, we need to adorn our souls in preparation by:

• Performing spiritual and corporal works of mercy;

• Going to confession;

• Participating in daily Mass as often as possible; and

• Praying.

How will you apply this message to your life? Will you put Christ at the center of your life and make Him a priority? Will you prepare for His birthday by adorning your soul with works of mercy, confession, and prayer?


Sermon Notes – The Truth Will Set You Free

“The Truth Will Set You Free”

Father Peter Fitzgibbons

November 24-25, 2018

Scripture: John 18:33B-37

33 So Pilate went back into the praetorium and summoned Jesus and said to him, “Are you the King of the Jews?”34 Jesus answered, “Do you say this on your own or have others told you about me?”35 Pilate answered, “I am not a Jew, am I? Your own nation and the chief priests handed you over to me. What have you done?”36 Jesus answered, “My kingdom does not belong to this world. If my kingdom did belong to this world, my attendants [would] be fighting to keep me from being handed over to the Jews. But as it is, my kingdom is not here.”37 So Pilate said to him, “Then you are a king?” Jesus answered, “You say I am a king. For this I was born and for this I came into the world, to testify to the truth. Everyone who belongs to the truth listens to my voice.”

I have been a priest for 35 years, and I’ve seen a lot. During that time, I have been forced to sit through lots of mandatory meetings……time I’ll never get back, but they have surely shortened my time in purgatory. Many of these meetings have been about creating new programs to bring converts to the Church.

I have a novel means of evangelizing….I tell people the whole truth. Christ said “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me (John 14:6). Truth is a “Who” not a “what.” All truth is found in Jesus Christ. He is the truth that frees us from our slavery to sin. G. K. Chesterton was a convert to the Catholic faith. When asked why he converted, he said because Catholicism is true. He also said that he didn’t want his sins explained away….he wanted them forgiven.

There is nothing wrong with what we believe; the problems arise in how we live it. Catholicism is the beacon of truth. So, share the whole truth about our faith with others and, as St. Francis of Assisi said, use words if necessary. Just be prepared to hear lots of “yeah buts.”

It is important for priests to study philosophy before entering the seminary, because it helps them approach issues thoughtfully. In philosophy, truth is a central subject. Nobody can have their own truth. The truth is absolute and is true no matter which religion is practiced. We all worship the same God, so abortion is a mortal sin for everyone…not just Catholics. In John 8:31-32, Christ said “If you continue in my word you are truly my disciples; and you will know the truth, and the truth will make you free.” The whole truth sets us free…not versions of it. When you change the truth, you are trying to change Jesus Christ Himself.

Jesus taught the Apostles for two hours, and their hearts were aflame, because when they heard the truth, they recognized it. Pilot looked at truth in the face, and did not.

The Advent season begins on December 2nd. Advent is a time to prepare for the arrival of Christ at Christmas through the sacrament of reconciliation and acts of penance. I go to confession to confessors I’ve known for 40 years. I have my failings too, but I take up my crosses and follow Him. I hope you will too.

How will you apply this message to your life? Will you evangelize by sharing the whole truth about our faith with others? Will you prepare for Advent with acts of penance and reconciliation?


Sermon Notes – Do Routine Things Routinely

“Do Routine Things Routinely”

Father Peter Fitzgibbons

December 1 – 2, 2018

Scripture: Luke 21: 25-28, 34-36

25 There will be signs in the sun, the moon, and the stars, and on earth nations will be in dismay, perplexed by the roaring of the sea and the waves.26 People will die of fright in anticipation of what is coming upon the world, for the powers of the heavens* will be shaken.27 And then they will see the Son of Man coming in a cloud with power and great glory.28 But when these signs begin to happen, stand erect and raise your heads because your redemption is at hand.34 “Beware that your hearts do not become drowsy from carousing and drunkenness and the anxieties of daily life, and that day catch you by surprise35 like a trap. For that day will assault everyone who lives on the face of the earth.36 Be vigilant at all times and pray that you have the strength to escape the tribulations that are imminent and to stand before the Son of Man.”

The Season of Advent is the beginning of the new Church year, and we are called to do penance…to prepare for eternity. The Lord is coming back, so what should we do? Look busy! Better yet…get busy!

Some people say they get nothing out of Mass….and they are right. But, the Mass is not for us or about us. It’s also not about the sermon, the music, the flowers, or the interior decorating. During the Mass, we become one with our Lord Jesus Christ and also give our body as a spiritual sacrifice to Him.

Make your life count, because there is no middle ground for salvation. Practice spirituality….do things over and over again to improve. When you do routine things routinely…like brushing or flossing your teeth…they become a habit, and you don’t even have to think twice about getting them done. This is how we prepare for Christ.

So, exactly how do you prepare?

• Participate in Mass more than once a week; in fact, go as often as possible.

• Go to Confession. Put it on your calendar; go every month, or every two months, but at least every three months.

• Practice charity. Give to those who are homeless or hungry.

• Do Penance. Practice self-sacrifice by forgetting about self and putting others first. Like Saint Therese of Lisieux, do small acts of penance all day…every day.

• Pray for one another. If you get nothing from your prayers, you aren’t doing it correctly….you are praying for yourself. Focus on the Beloved and not on yourself. Don’t worry if you get distracted; just refocus on Him.

Get into the habit of doing routine things routinely, and you will be ready to be embraced by His holy arms when He returns or when our death comes. I tell patients in Hospice that when they see Christ with a smile on his face and His arms open wide to go to Him and be embraced. A priest may not always be close by at the time of death. So, the Prayer for a Happy Death is a good one to pray often.

Prayer for a Happy Death (Ven. John Henry Cardinal Newman):

O my Lord and Savior, support me in my last hour in the strong arms of Thy Sacraments and by the fresh fragrance of Thy consolations. Let the absolving words be said over me, and the holy oil sign and seal me; and let Thine own Body be my food, and Thy Blood my sprinkling; and let my sweet Mother, Mary, breathe on me, and my Angel whisper peace to me, and my glorious saints and my own dear patrons smile upon me, that, in them all and through them all, I may receive the gift of perseverence, and die as I desire to live, in Thy faith, in Thy Church, in Thy service, and in Thy love. Amen.

How will you apply this message to your life? Will you develop the habit of doing routine things routinely? Will you participate in Mass as often as possible? Will you go to Confession at least every three months? Will you practice self-sacrifice by forgetting about yourself and putting others first?


Sermon Notes – Everlasting Joy

“For Everlasting Joy, Pray for More of the Who and not the What”

Father Peter Fitzgibbons

November 18 – 19, 2018

Leprosy, or Hansen’s disease, was a contagious and deadly disease, so the ten lepers in Luke 17: 11-19 each had a very heavy cross to bear. However, it was because of the leprosy, their crosses, that they encountered Jesus Christ. It was because of their faith in Him that they were healed and given the gift of life. It’s also why their story is still being taught today, 2,000 years later, so that we can learn from it. There’s another lesson we can learn from the lepers. Even though all ten were healed, just one came back to thank Jesus. Be sure to thank Him for your blessings!

Our crosses are His greatest gift to us, but we pray for them to be taken away instead of using them to help others. You cannot help, or even understand, combat veterans and others who have been to hell and back unless you’ve been there yourself.

Jesus did not ask the lepers if they were worthy, if they loved their dogs, or if they tithed at church. He gave them their lives back because of His great love for all of us. Christ says that greater gifts are in store for us. All of His gifts are just little hints of His love. Sometimes, He shows us greater love by not giving us what we want. You can be sure that when He says “No”, it’s for a bigger and better reason.

We pray too small….and it saddens our Lord. Often, we ask for things and not for a closer relationship with Him. Pray BIG. Pray for the “Who” and not more of the “what.” He wants to give us the gift of Himself…the greatest gift of all, and if you have Him, you have everything.

How will you apply this message to your life? Will you pray BIG by asking for a closer relationship with Him? Will you thank Him for your blessings as well as your crosses?


Sermon Notes – Love Totally

“Love Totally and Without Reservation”

Father Peter Fitzgibbons

November 10-11, 2018

Scripture: Mark 12: 38-44

38) In the course of his teaching he said,p “Beware of the scribes, who like to go around in long robes and accept greetings in the marketplaces, 39) seats of honor in synagogues, and places of honor at banquets.40) They devour the houses of widows and, as a pretext, recite lengthy prayers. They will receive a very severe condemnation.” 41) He sat down opposite the treasury and observed how the crowd put money into the treasury. Many rich people put in large sums. 42) A poor widow also came and put in two small coins worth a few cents. 43) Calling his disciples to himself, he said to them, “Amen, I say to you, this poor widow put in more than all the other contributors to the treasury. 44) For they have all contributed from their surplus wealth, but she, from her poverty, has contributed all she had, her whole livelihood.”

Teachers tend to repeat the points of the lesson they want their students to remember. Our Lord teaches us again and again that we must love Him and His people. The Ten Commandments are basic instructions on how to love, while the Catechism contains more in-depth instructions. In neither can you love totally and without reservation until you give up the love of self.

So, what does that kind of love look like? In John 15:13, Jesus said, “No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” In Matthew 18:21, Jesus tells Peter that he must forgive his brother “Not seven times; I say, seventy time seven times.” We can also find that kind of love on the crucifix. His Passion is a reminder of just how much He loves us. Christ said “Father forgive them, they know not what they do (Luke 23:34). Every Mass is a total expression and outpouring of His love. It shows us how much we are loved and how much we are to love others.

We don’t pay close enough attention to the lessons Christ teaches us. Often, we forget the lessons already learned about who and how we are to love. It’s as if we have Attention Deficit Disorder. As fallen people, we try to figure out how much we can get away with and do as little as possible and still get into heaven. However, I doubt that you would be very happy if your spouse said s/he loved you only partially.

How will you apply this message to your life? Will you give up your love of self? Will you love totally and without reservation?

Father’s After-Thoughts….

Veterans’ Day is Monday. George Orwell said: “People sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf.” On June 6, 1944, D-Day, our soldiers crossed the English Channel and landed on the beaches of Normandy, France to help liberate Western Europe from the German Nazis. A soldier once told me that the water was bloody when they made their way up to the beach. Another said that they had to step over dead bodies in the water to get to shore.

Some say that time heals all wounds; but that is not true…at least for many combat veterans. Their wounds are deep and, many times, are kept hidden for a lifetime. It becomes much more difficult, even impossible to cope with the pain when their wives are no longer there to help. Since the Civil War, 20 veterans commit suicide every day. Please pray for those who have served and who are still serving in combat zones that they find peace and solace. And, when you meet a veteran, be sure to thank them for their service.


Sermon Notes – Read the Owner’s Manual

“Read the Owner’s Manual”

Father Peter Fitzgibbons

November 3 – 4, 2018

Scripture: Mark 10: 46-52

How many of you have read the owner’s manual for your car? Not many of us, I am sure. The Ten Commandments are our guide, our owner’s manual, for how to love God and his people. People say “I know the Ten Commandments,” and they can even recite them by heart. They know them, but do they fully understand them?

There is a lot more meaning in the Ten Commandments than just ten declarative sentences. Just look at the Catechism…there are more prohibitions and commandments than first meets the eye. But, they are the beginning steps of how to love Him and others….they are neither too strict nor too lax, created to help keep us on the straight and narrow path. Many of us can talk the talk, and some of us can walk the walk when it’s convenient. But, once things get a little uncomfortable, we often bail.

The Ten Commandments are not burdensome, but we need to fully understand and follow them to grow in love. Many times our egos get in the way, which is a problem since love is focused on others first. We must learn how to be happy in simply obeying the Commandments. Christ said “If you love me, you will keep my commandments.” (John 14:15). By the way, there are more than ten:

Matthew 35-36:

35) “For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, a stranger and you welcomed me; 36) naked and you clothed me, ill and you cared for me, in prison and you visited me.”

Left to our own devices, we often screw up even though we say “I’ve got this.” Physicians tell us exactly how to care for our bodies. The Ten Commandments tell us how to care for our souls and to love Him and others. As Catholics, we believe precisely what Christ teaches…nothing more, nothing less. People are taught the truth; they just don’t want to live it. A lack of knowledge is not the problem…it’s a lack of love. We are more in love with ourselves than with Him. We want what we want when we want it. Christ asks so little of us, only to love Him and our neighbor. However, until our love of self dies, we will be unable to love Him or anyone else.

A rich man approached Jesus and said that he had obeyed the Ten Commandments all of his life and asked what else he needed to do to inherit eternal life. The man was very sad when Jesus said to him: “If you wish to be perfect, go, sell what you have and give to [the] poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.” (Matthew 19:21). But, the rich man had many possessions and could not bear to part with them, so he walked away from Our Lord. He knew the Commandments, but he did not completely understand them. He could talk the talk, but was unable to walk the walk.

Blasphemy is saying something disrespectful about God, the Mass, or the sacraments. People commit blasphemy when they say that Mass is boring, that they don’t get anything from it, that they dislike the music, or that they don’t like the Mass given in Latin, English, or Spanish. Newsflash: We are not at Mass to be entertained…the Mass is NOT about us. It is all about Our Lord. We are there as participants to talk to God.

God asks us not to hurt ourselves or others. When we eat or drink too much, we harm our bodies. When we sin, we break away from the love of God. We hurt our family because they depend on us. We also hurt those who cannot see the face of Christ in us and be led to Him.

How will you apply this message to your life? Will you study the owner’s manual (the Ten Commandments) so that you can love God and your neighbor?