God invites us to look at everything in the context of eternity. Context is a beautiful thing, because it shows us the true value of things. A billionaire cares little about his money if his five-year-old son has cancer. That’s context. When the doctor tells you that you have only six months to live, you very quickly develop clarity around what matters most and what matters least. That’s context. Context gives us the clarity we need to make great decisions.
Today: Consider these questions: Are you more passionate and enthusiastic about the things of this world or the things of the next world? Are you more passionate about accumulating things in this world than about caring for the less fortunate, relieving the suffering of the poor, and working to eradicate injustice?
Scripture 101: Ladies, can you tell me what screams out in the gospel today? The hour was noon, and there was a woman by herself drawing water at the well. What’s wrong with that? The woman was drawing water at the well alone which was just not done in her culture. Women travelled in groups and never by themselves. Also, it would have been a balmy 120 degrees at midday. Just a wonderful time of the day. Nobody goes out at noon except for the American Army while very overdressed. It’s hot, and you have 50 extra pounds of Uncle Sam’s equipment while taking a little nature walk. It’s a bit warm. It opens the pores…really refreshing. Because of the heat, most people drew water in the morning or the evening. Another thing that stands out in the scripture is that Jesus spoke to her. Even today, men in that part of the world never touch or speak directly to women. This was a fallen woman, and Jesus called her on it. He went there, despite being hungry and tired, to search for her soul. She was His child made in His image and likeness. She had wandered away from His love with five husbands and a live-in boyfriend. She was a lost woman who nobody wanted to associate with…she was shunned. But He went out to search for her anyway and to bring her back. Did Christ condemn the woman at the well by saying, “By the way, I see you have had five husbands and live with a boyfriend…you are going to hell.” Did He say that? No. Did He throw a penalty flag? No. Did He condemn her? No. We do not condemn anybody. Everyone is open for salvation. Instead, He said, “what you are looking for is a Who not a what.”
Christ came for the salvation of all souls…not just for Jews or Gentiles, but for everyone. Each soul has a cost…the cost is what you see on the crucifix. That day at the well, Christ was hot and tired. But this is what He came to do…to seek the lost, even the greatest sinners. He came to search for all of His children who have wandered away from Him. It is interesting that He gives us the precise way in which to reach out to others even when we are tired, hungry, or we just don’t want to do it. We are called to share the love of Christ by virtue of our baptism. Some of the most fruitful times to share His love is when it is the most inconvenient or uncomfortable. All the stuff I did for Uncle Sam was me just doing my job. Also, I have a lot of street credit at Hospice and at the hospital, but I’m just doing my job. It’s Christ that gets the real street credit…I’m just the instrument. Christ heals them…not the doctors or nurses.
Sometimes, when I’m talking to people about the Faith, I lose my patience if they start playing the quiz game show and try to out-lawyer me. They try to engage me in intellectual discussions. You know, I spent four years studying theology, I think I’ve got it. When you tell them about His love and the fullness of the Church, they will, by and large, start intellectual discussions with you. “Why do you call priests Father?” Because Saint Paul said so. “Well, you Catholics make women wear doilies on their heads.” Those were the old ways, and it’s no big deal. Come on, Dude! Stop playing the quiz show with me. They will make any excuse. But, it’s a delay tactic…an attempt to obscure their own sins…look, squirrel!! “I don’t go to church because you have sinners there.” Yes, and I’m happy about that. We are trying to change them. Where else would you like sinners to be? Yes, they do terrible things…that’s why they are in church. How about you, Chuckles? I know Someone who can save you from your sins.
If Jesus only called those who are perfect, Mary, Joseph, and Jesus would be the only people here. The Church would be empty. We are men not angels. We are a hospital for sinners, not a hotel for saints. Our Lord came for us so that we could be transformed. We are called to do the same by seeking those who have strayed away from the Faith. Will we always get results? Yes! “But it didn’t work; they didn’t come back.” You don’t know for sure; they’re not dead yet. Even though you may not see results in the people you’ve been sharing His love with, you’ve planted a seed that may grow inside them. And, look at what it did for you. Look at how it has expanded your own heart.
When I first arrived in Iraq during the first Gulf War, I approached the Colonel who said to me, “What are you doing here?” Well, you told me to come. This is where my soldiers are, so this is where I’m supposed to be. When I go into a hospital room wearing Personal Protection Equipment (PPE), I’m breathing in and out like Darth Vader with a mask and gown. “What are you doing here, Father?” Well, I’m your priest; I’m supposed to be here. Besides, they give me free parking and I write off the mileage. When people are in failing health, and they do not want to come back to the Church, I just wait and wait and wait some more. Sometimes when I’m in Hospice and the nurses have just bombed patients with drugs, I will ask them again if they would like to receive Last Rites. I thought so! I’m persistent…I keep going after them. Never give up on anyone. Never give up trying to bring them back to the love of Christ. Each soul has its own worth. Each soul is worth the sacrifice…whether it is convenient or not. It was neither convenient nor comfortable for our Lord that day at the well.
One day, while I was at the VA Hospital and making my last rounds in Hospice, one of the nurses asked me if I could see a patient who wanted to talk to a chaplain. I had met this patient once before when he was in-processing, and we had talked for a few minutes. He told me that he had cancer, and it was his fault. He had been scheduled for a colonoscopy previously that didn’t work out, and he was supposed to come back two weeks later for another one…but he never returned. When he finally came back, the cancer was terminal. Before I went into the patient’s room, the nurse told me it wasn’t pleasant. I said, “Yeah, I know.” His cancer had become external which has a particular aroma. If you’ve ever been in a patient’s room whose cancer is external, it’s a real treat for the senses. It will bring a tear to your eye. I sat there listening to him for about 20 minutes. He wanted to talk, but the cancer had metastasized to his brain. Occasionally, he would say something that I could understand. During our conversation, the nurse kept coming into the room and spraying air freshener. When I finally left his room, my clothes smelled like the cancer. Did I enjoy that? Hell no. Was it comfortable? No, but that’s what I was supposed to do. While in the military, did I enjoy all those times and places where I could have gotten myself killed? Do you think that was a lot of fun? No. They don’t print enough money for me to want to do that or make enough alcohol. But that’s what I was supposed to do. Likewise, we are supposed to seek out souls as Christ did even when it’s uncomfortable or unpleasant. We are called to share His love with them.
Christ is reaching out to others through you to share the great gift you have received …the gift of our Catholic faith…the fullness of truth. You are called to bring it to others. Maybe you won’t experience anything as egregious as I have; I hope you don’t, but you may encounter people who are very combative with their words. Why are you getting so worked up if what I’m saying isn’t true? Why are you getting your underwear in a knot? Proclaim the message anyway. Nobody wants to get involved in arguments. I know, that’s why I stay away from my family. But, Christ can save anyone, and that’s part of the message we bring, They will see in you the love of Christ.
How will you apply this message to your life? Will you share the love of Christ with others even when it’s uncomfortable or inconvenient?
The gospel today took place 10 days before our Lord’s passion. Our good Lord showed the three apostles a particular vision of His nature, of His true nature, and what that would be like. It was also to strengthen them for the coming scandal of the cross. I think all of us would really like to have one of those momentous moments of seeing the miracle of the manifestation of God. We would really like that. You may think that it would really solidify your faith after that. That’s a wonderful and pious thought, but reality is different. Look at the apostles…these three in particular. Over the course of three years, they saw many miracles. They saw three people raised from the dead…Lazarus being one. After three days in a tomb, there would be a stench. Lazarus was truly dead. Think of all the miracles of our good Lord that they witnessed…not all were not recorded in scripture. Yet, when Christ’s time came, they ran away like sissy boys. Real men, and they ran away. So, a great spiritual experience does not translate into being set. That’s true in our own lives. Just look at all the people who have left the Church. “Well, if I only had a great spiritual experience I would stay.” Remember the joy of your first communion? I’m sure your parents do and that they have pictures. Remember your confirmation, your wedding, and the baptism of your children? Where are all those people now? We have our own great spiritual experiences. Our Lord still comes and gives us spiritual experiences, because He knows how frightened we are no matter how tough we might think we are. Our Lord knows that we still get lonely and afraid. The most common verse in scripture is “do not be afraid.” Our Lord would not have said that if He didn’t think we were afraid. The worse punishment for anyone is being alone or in solitary confinement in prison. We need consolation, and we need to know His divine presence. Our Lord always comes to us, but sometimes we are too busy to see Him.
I was making my rounds in the Emergency Department at the VA Hospital on Thursday. I was talking to this one man who won’t be leaving. I walked out of his room to ask the nurse a question. I always ask the staff questions. I read training magazines and farming magazines, because I want to learn. So, I asked the nurse about the lump on the side of this patient’s jaw. He said, “what lump.” The nurse went into the man’s room to check on him, and when he came back, he said that the lump hadn’t been seen earlier, because it wasn’t significant, and we didn’t catch it. Even a nurse who is so experienced didn’t see it.
We overlook our God’s timely providence. He knows when we have something extraordinary in which to rid ourselves. Some little girl spits up green soup, and right away we think it’s satan. Oh my gosh, she’s possessed! I get a lot of calls about exorcism; sometimes our imaginations run wild. We are watching way too many movies. Our Lord comes to us, but we are too busy with our cell phones and other distractions to hear Him. He is always trying to talk to us, trying to give us little messages. I am here and I hear your prayers.
A few months ago, I was walking, and I was very upset because of the death of my twin brother. So, I was letting God know that I was really torqued and using some official military language. I was by myself and nobody could hear me. This was official, government-sanctioned, military language. I was using some good Anglo-Saxon terms not used in polite company. I was really p’oed. Later, as I continued walking, I saw a penny and picked it up. It was a wheat penny, and the date on the coin was 1953…the year my brother and I were born. I was thinking how odd to find that penny in the middle of nowhere in Stanly County. How many pennies exist with the year 1953? It’s just odd.
I remember I was doing the funeral for Mr. Hudson, a World War II veteran of the Army Air Corps. We did puzzles together; he passed a few years ago. Mr. Hudson had been stationed in Japan and flew in a B-17. When bombs got stuck, it was his job to go to the bottom of the B-17 and, without a safety harness, kick the bombs that were stuck out the back door of the plane. He was an interesting man and a funny guy. I asked him one time if he ever got air sick; he said no, but he did get seasick. He came home from the war by ship. While crossing the Indian Ocean, he was fine; the Mediterranean…fine; the Atlantic…not fine. For the next seven days he didn’t eat. But, at least the ship was headed in the right direction…toward home. Anyway, he asked me to do his funeral even though he wasn’t Catholic. As I was enroute to the funeral, I stopped to get a cup of coffee at a convenience store. I happened to look down at the ground and saw a puzzle piece. I picked up the puzzle piece, and when I had finished the ceremony and walked over to the wall where his ashes were to be interred, I placed the puzzle piece on top of his ashes.
God talks to all of us. I’m not special. In fact, God probably loves you more than me, because you deserve it more. I have a lot of explaining to do about my permanent record when I see Him face-to-face. God does talk to you, and He desperately tries to get your attention, but in subtle ways. Throughout our lives, more frequently than we can imagine, God tries to tell us He is present and that He cares.
How will you apply this message to your life? He is speaking to you…will you stop to listen?
So, we are a couple of days into Lent. This is a time in which we are supposed to discipline our bodies and discipline our spirits by penance and mortification by denying ourselves certain food until Easter, praying more, breaking bad habits, and encouraging good ones. How are y’all doing with that? Still sticking to them? Not so much? That’s what I thought. We are supposed to discipline our bodies and our spirits beginning with the Sacraments we receive – Holy Communion and Penance. So, we discipline our will to make it stronger. We break bad habits and encourage good ones. By the way, bad habits are hard to break, and good habits are hard to keep. The beautiful thing is that when we fall off the wagon, as it were, we can always start over. We can start over at any time. That’s the beauty of it. It’s not a zero-sum game that you have to get perfect. You simply get back up and try again. It may be hard, even though it seemed like a good idea at the time. “Hey, it won’t be that bad…I’m not going to miss it anyway.” But, as soon as you give up something to the world, you will see all kinds of temptation. As soon as I had to give up bacon, I saw all these advertisements for CiCi’s bacon crust pizza and bacon Whoppers. Really? All year long, I don’t think twice about chocolate cake, but once I gave it up for Lent, everywhere I went there was chocolate cake. That’s just temptation.
The biggest occasion for sin is right here between our shoulders. We cannot raise ourselves to heaven by our bootstraps. You may say, “It’s too hard. I may have taken on something a little bigger than I should have.” That’s okay…just make sure you aren’t trying to pole vault over mouse turds. The wonderful thing about doing penance is that you may actually feel better. If you resolve to eat better, you’ll feel better…I’m not a doctor, but you will probably feel better. Still, after a while, spinach gets really boring. Yuck! Pizza with bacon and the crust and everything else is food pornography for me. I’m sorry, but it just is.
These mortifications we impose upon ourselves are important, but they can cause so much pain. Giving up something we love is a hard thing to do, especially when we are doing it just for ourselves. That’s hard to believe, we being the most important thing above all; you’ve heard me say, “I’m not much but I’m all I think about.” Many people don’t stick with the medicine and special diets their doctors put them on. Diabetics have a bad habit of not doing what they are supposed to do even though they may need to have body parts chopped off only to eventually die and not in a pleasant way. But, still they do not follow their doctors’ orders. Why? Because, it’s only about them.
I can find any excuse to do what I want to do. I should be able to eat a bacon sandwich, because I fought for my country! I suffered for Uncle Sam, so I deserve bacon! My heart doesn’t, but I deserve it. To make it easier and to keep ourselves motivated, we can follow Saint James’ suggestion and do penance for someone else. Our parents had that experience when they denied themselves for their children. We often will do for others what we won’t do for ourselves. When we do it for someone else, our love is better. We can do penance for our families or those we love. You didn’t get that one? It can be two different groups. It’s just the way it is. We all have family and loved ones who have fallen away from the Faith, who have done bad things, or who have a serious illness. Take their sufferings upon yourself. In doing so, we imitate Saint Paul in his sufferings…with his crosses. He said, “I make up in my body what is lacking in the sufferings of Christ for the sake of the body of His Church.” God calls all of us to participate in suffering. Do penance for someone else as Christ did for us. Imitate Him. All those little penances, little alterations, and little gifts for our Lord are meant to actualize what is in the Sacraments. When coupled with the Sacrament of Holy Communion and Penance, we strengthen our love, we atone for our sins, and we strengthen our will. The whole purpose is so that we become better receptacles for God’s love and better messengers of His love.
Saint James also wrote that a person who brings another person back from sin saves his own soul and cancels out a multitude of his own sins. So, join your sufferings, deprivations, extra prayers, and sacrifices to the sacrifice of our Savior for the salvation of souls. Do penance for other people as Christ did for us. Love always thinks of others and is never selfish. So, when deciding whether or not to eat that piece of chocolate cake, think of the people you are giving it up for or really giving it to.
How will you apply this message to your life? If you fall, will you get back up and try again? Will you imitate Christ and do penance for others?
